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  • 08-08-2009 11:00pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Just a question here I was wondering, while doing the deed can women control when they cum, like hold it back etc? Or is it all the man, also if a woman cums and a man hasn't and he continues to work away so to speak is the woman bothered??


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  • #2
    shellyboo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,883 ✭✭✭shellyboo


    To a certain extent you can hold it back, and nope, the woman would not be bothered... it is far preferable to the guy coming first and leaving you orgasmless :P


  • #3
    Faith
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 30,661 Mod ✭✭✭✭Faith


    I tend to scare my orgasms away if I try to hold them back, so it's not something I'd do often. And no, I'm more than happy if a guy continues working away after I've orgasmed!


  • #4
    VaioCruiser
    Closed Accounts Posts: 750 ✭✭✭VaioCruiser


    Unregistered wrote: »
    Just a question here I was wondering, while doing the deed can women control when they cum, like hold it back etc? Or is it all the man, also if a woman cums and a man hasn't and he continues to work away so to speak is the woman bothered??

    Broadly speaking ... Women would not normally be bothered ... because they can continue to climax again ... and again... while you are still building.

    All the best !


  • #5
    shellyboo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,883 ✭✭✭shellyboo


    VaioCruiser wrote: »
    Broadly speaking ... Women would not normally be bothered ... because they can continue to climax again ... and again... while you are still building.

    All the best !


    Um, not necessarily! Not every woman is multi-orgasmic... just the lucky ones!


  • #6
    Ickle Magoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    Like men, it varies somewhat. I can hold back an orgasm for so long but if my fella is making all the right moves then I can't hold it indefinitely, if he came and just stopped all interaction I would be rather annoyed tbh, it's only right we both get an orgasm regardless of the method/s used.

    As for multiple orgasms, sometimes I can - sometimes I can't. I wouldn't assume that a) every woman can have multiple orgasms or b) even the ones that can will have them every time.

    Best of luck!


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  • #7
    Eve_Dublin
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,884 ✭✭✭Eve_Dublin


    VaioCruiser wrote: »
    Broadly speaking ... Women would not normally be bothered ... because they can continue to climax again ... and again... while you are still building.

    All the best !

    Ha! No, this very, very rarely happens (although I sometimes let on I'm still in the throws of ecstasy even after I come if it helped the guy along). I can't really control when I come and I used to have problems with premature...eh...cumming but I'm able to hold back on this somewhat as I get older and a bit more experienced.
    If I come, my muscles tend to relax and I can't really feel the man inside me anymore but I'm happy to continue until he's done and everyone's happy. To be honest, once I come, I'm not as horny as before (as is the case with men) and would happily have a nice cup of tea and read my book 'till he finished but no, I think most women would like to see their man enjoying themselves as well and are happy to carry on.


  • #8
    VaioCruiser
    Closed Accounts Posts: 750 ✭✭✭VaioCruiser


    Oooops... seems my partners have been unusual :eek:


  • #9
    Bb4sure
    Closed Accounts Posts: 76 ✭✭Bb4sure


    VaioCruiser wrote: »
    Oooops... seems my partners have been unusual :eek:

    Elaborate??:D


  • #10
    Eve_Dublin
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,884 ✭✭✭Eve_Dublin


    VaioCruiser wrote: »
    Oooops... seems my partners have been unusual :eek:

    Are maybe it's because you're an absolute STUD in the sack! ;)


  • #11
    VaioCruiser
    Closed Accounts Posts: 750 ✭✭✭VaioCruiser


    :rolleyes: Don't want the thread to get off topic here guys. I doubt if I am any different to anyone else :)

    The key thing that we can see in this thread is that everyone is different. What matters for the OP is to communicate with his lady and find out what SHE wants him to do ....


    All the best


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  • #12
    Eve_Dublin
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,884 ✭✭✭Eve_Dublin


    VaioCruiser wrote: »
    :rolleyes: Don't want the thread to get off topic here guys. I doubt if I am any different to anyone else :)

    The key thing that we can see in this thread is that everyone is different. What matters for the OP is to communicate with his lady and find out what SHE wants him to do ....


    All the best



    I was only half joking actually VaioCruiser...not trying to be a smart ar*e. I've usually had multiple orgasms with men (perhaps 2) I've had very good chemistry with and who knew exactly what they're were doing because we discussed our likes and dislikes and they took it on board. But anyway...enough about my sex life....everyone IS different. Communication is without a doubt the key...don't be shy.


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