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Erection problem

  • 06-08-2009 10:50pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    ok with this amazing girl! im 17 years old and i am a virgin, but she isnt (she being 16)

    i get really "in the mood" when i'm with her and slowly achieve an erection, the problem comes when putting on the condom i go flacid again and find it impossible to get the erection back without jacking myself off *sigh*

    its really frustrating and really embarrassing tbh and its just getting me down, i'd love tips and such if any of you could help, could i possibly have erectile dysfunction? is it a psycholgical problem?

    thanks you guys


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I know what you mean, it happens. Happened to me I thought it was the johny cutting off blood? I found its the mood totally changes for me (whilst putting on the johny and I start losing the erection. Ask her to give you head first then put the johny on just as she finishes. Works fine for me. Weird though, im the same as you.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    All in the head. Once you learn to relax (easier said than done) it will come no problem to you. It may take awhile to get used to a condom too. That can be an issue. Explain to the girl that its only happening due to thinking too much about it, if she says something like no worries try and take it at face value. it will help you relax and get where you want to be.


  • #4
    Bb4sure
    Closed Accounts Posts: 76 ✭✭Bb4sure


    Used to have that problem ages ago. My trick was to get her to give me head then lob on the johny :D Works a treat!


  • #5
    Otis Driftwood
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,925 ✭✭✭Otis Driftwood


    Its more common than you think OP and this issue crops up every now and again on here.Its basically down to nerves.You should practice putting condoms on when you are masterbating.It will give you more confidence and you will get more adept at putting them on.Its much easier getting used to putting a condom on than raising a child.;)


  • #6
    wolfric
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,190 ✭✭✭wolfric


    Give her head while you wait for it to come back up.


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  • #7
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    its all in your head. that doesn't mean it will go away.but just remember it happens to people in their 40's. so don't sweat it being human isn't too bad. ride the wave it has its up's too and their worth waiting for.


    C


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