Need help girl of my dreams advice both sexes

betterman

hi there
reciently i met this girl at first she seemed like all the other girls but after a while when i had the courage to go and talk with her we got on like a house on fire.
im 25 and after all the other women i was with this is the first girl i could really connect with.
i THINK she is giving suttle hints but i dont want to try anything to scare her off.
today i went to her appartment for a few drinks and i think there was something small.
when i said goodbye it felt to me there should have been more.

her younger sister os pver frpm poland visiting her so i felt it a bit inapproiate to get a slap in the face.
please any advice is really helpful. i generally am head over heals with this woman.

Kintarō Hattori

Speak up otherwise it'll gnaw away at you. If you like her and you get the feeling it's mutual that's the only way it can go.

Spastafarian

betterman wrote: »

hi there
reciently i met this girl at first she seemed like all the other girls but after a while when i had the courage to go and talk with her we got on like a house on fire.
im 25 and after all the other women i was with this is the first girl i could really connect with.
i THINK she is giving suttle hints but i dont want to try anything to scare her off.
today i went to her appartment for a few drinks and i think there was something small.
when i said goodbye it felt to me there should have been more.

her younger sister os pver frpm poland visiting her so i felt it a bit inapproiate to get a slap in the face.
please any advice is really helpful. i generally am head over heals with this woman.

What was the something small?

K-Ren

Spastafarian wrote: »

What was the something small?

:rolleyes:

bronte

Hi op, this would be better in personal issues.
Ask a moderater to move your thread.

Spastafarian

K-Ren wrote: »

:rolleyes:

What? It was a genuine question.

K4t

I'd leave it. Doesn't sound like she's interested in you at all tbh.

White_Feather

I think you would become a betterman if you knew which forum to post in!:D


*terrible terrible joke......

Spastafarian

We need more info to make an informed suggestion OP. What are these 'subtle hints'? Don't go rushing in yet or you might get the dreaded awkward recoil. Which is far worse than the slap in the face.

dyl10

Are you telling me she's Polish? :eek:

AlkalineAcid

OP's drunk so he was probably recognising everything she said and did as a subtle hint.

yourmano

Ah man, they do things differently, any Polish men on here to advise? Honest to God, different ball-game!

betterman

im not drunk to start off with. and sorry to those for posting in the wrong board im new to this game.
her house mate was up for the part of the night and she was suggestion that i should be with her.
(ook not so suttle.)
a few times i cought her lookin at me when there was no reason there were a load of things i cant say off hand but perhaps its just me in love head over heels trying to pick up other things.
yes she is polish but women around the world have 1 thing in commen. they are complicated
i just dont no what to do.
should i say something or should i go and kiss her or wait for a more appropiate time. we are going out tonight again with some mutual friends. i tried to get info out of them but the promiced her they would not say anything

betterman

does it matter id she is polish i was with a phillipino, american 2 french girls and a spanish before (in my opinion they have more self respect than irish women)

yourmano

Is self respect this issue here? I don't know about saying all those nationalities have more self-respect. Bit of a generalisation. Polish women date differently is what I meant.

betterman

i no that but dyl10 sounded suprised that she was polish. i work in a v busy night club and im used to seeing different nationalitys and in general the irish girls dress more slutty and tend to get more drunk than other nationalitys. that is the reason why i always went for the forignores.

cruiser178

Feckin foreigners,comin over here taken our op's

Biggins

Be polite but be straight with her. Its the best thing you can do and will have less bad comebacks if she refuses you.

Ask her at a time you deem appropriate, if she is as "interested" in you as you are deeply in her?
Never be afraid to let someone know you like them. They can only react one one way or another.
Either way, you have an answer.

Good luck.

Fizman

OP, you're going to have to man up to be honest. Maybe tell her how you feel over the next few days, because the longer you let this stew.....the more grief you'll create for yourself. Worse case scenario is that you find out she doesn't want to get into anything with you, and you can continue to chase non-irish women.

betterman wrote: »

does it matter id she is polish i was with a phillipino, american 2 french girls and a spanish before (in my opinion they have more self respect than irish women)

/awaits stampede