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Holiday Relationships

  • 29-07-2009 2:07pm
    #1
    Wasy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 89 ✭✭


    I went on holiday the other week and met a really nice girl. I usually wouldnt be bothered with holiday relationships but this girl seemed different. She wouldnt sleep with me and said she wanted to wait until she got home as she is working over and wont be home for a month. When i got home we were texting mad for a few days but now texts have begun to drop off and it is me making all the effort. I know i shouldnt have got my hopes up so much considering it was a holiday relationships but still kind of hurts.


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  • #2
    dblennon
    Closed Accounts Posts: 185 ✭✭dblennon


    boyfriend!!!


  • #3
    Latchy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    Cut down or cut out the texts for a bit OP .

    If she doesn't get back to you , it's over ,forget her ,move on and see it for what it was , a breif holiday romance .Because the longer you text her wiithout reply,it's only going to prolong the hurt for you


  • #4
    Wasy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 89 ✭✭Wasy


    Yeah, she said she was off with him and that he treated her like crap, propably still with him though, ah well isnt meant to be sometimes, deleted her number and time to move on i think.


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    i think u should go for it!

    I met my current boyfriend when i was working in greece! same exact story! I dropped off on the texts, emails (was playing hard to get! wasnt sure how much he lked me) but then bumped into him in ireland by coincidence. Turned out both us were living dub then and he was just around the corner!

    have been goin out 2 years now!


  • #6
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    Wasy wrote: »
    I went on holiday the other week and met a really nice girl. I usually wouldnt be bothered with holiday relationships but this girl seemed different. She wouldnt sleep with me and said she wanted to wait until she got home as she is working over and wont be home for a month. When i got home we were texting mad for a few days but now texts have begun to drop off and it is me making all the effort. I know i shouldnt have got my hopes up so much considering it was a holiday relationships but still kind of hurts.
    Thinking outside of the box and if you really want her...
    Fly back over there.

    Worst case scenario,you get another weeks holiday.
    Best case scenario-you get the girl.


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  • #7
    ncmc
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,852 ✭✭✭ncmc


    Deleted User wrote: »
    Thinking outside of the box and if you really want her...
    Fly back over there.

    Worst case scenario,you get another weeks holiday.
    Best case scenario-you get the girl.

    I think this is really bad advice! I think the worst case scenario would be that she thinks you're a total psycho, you get really hurt and you have a massive visa bill waiting for you when you get home :rolleyes:

    OP, I would cool things off on the texts for a while and maybe contact her when she gets back home in a few weeks to see if she is interested in meeting up. You will know straight away if she is interested or not and if she's not, chalk it down to experience and move on.

    Best of luck!


  • #8
    Draupnir
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,548 ✭✭✭Draupnir


    Not a hard one, you text here and tell her that you aren't sure what her feelings are and that since she hasn't been in touch as much the last few days you are going to cool off and let her decide what she wants.

    Ask her to let you know if she doesn't see things as any more than a holiday romance so that you can get on with things.

    After that, not a lot you can do.


  • #9
    Wasy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 89 ✭✭Wasy


    Flying over to her is a definite no no. When i text her she does text back but its me who's does all the running so im definetely going to ease off for a while. I wouldnt mind but i wasnt too bothered until she said she'd meet up with me when she came home, that got me interested i have to say but if it doesnt work out its not meant to be.


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