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  • 28-07-2009 11:33pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I am looking for some advice here, i know its going to be hard to advise me but anyway... 25 And been in a Few long term relationships... Basicly Never had any issues with Sex was always confident enough etc, Anyway my most recent girl (ex now) before we even had sex she told me she hated sex and doesnt enjoy it needless to say this put me off sex with her so much and confidence went away fairly fast and even when we were having sex all i could think about was what what she said, The Thing is i am scared out of my head to have sex again with someone, Both Confidence and what my ex said, Satisfy.....


Comments

  • #2
    Overheal
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,729 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    How long have you been broke up?


  • #3
    jy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 38 ✭jy


    dont mind her she had the issues not you


  • #4
    TriceMarie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 645 ✭✭✭TriceMarie


    Yup.
    She obviously has some issues regarding sex.
    So don't let your confidence get knocked,because it's obviously nothing to do with you!
    Perhaps she should get some help,espically if it's from bad experiences.
    Did she never tell you why?

    If she hated sex then why did she agree to having sex afterwards anyway?


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    We've been broken up for about 5 months now, Like even when i was with her i avoided doing anything sexual with her, I know it was a Issue she has been while i was with her and now that i am not i still afraid terrified to even think about it, I am seeing this girl at the moment taken things slow and i know sex is going to be a issue :(


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