Problem with girls

LegacyUser

hi
i really have something on my mind thats been bothering me for quite a while now..
im a 24y old male, i dont think im bad lookwise and keep reasonably fit..but at the end of the day i had basically 0 interactions with girls..im quite ashamed of this tbh, as i think the opposite sex perceives as a bad thing more than good thing, altought most girls would say it wouldnt really matter , i think in the end it does
im a shy guy ( my parents raised me in a very protective way) , im quite confident regarding my own ability but when something depends on other people, my confidence just falls apart and this happens especially with girls so i presume this doesnt come across as confident at all,and i never made a move either cos i feel i have some sort of mental block that prevents me from takin action
it doenst really help really that i didnt go to school in ireland so i had a tough time finding friends when i came over ,even if i went to college nobody really bonded in my class so goin out was a rarity
i really wouldnt know what to say to make a girl realise that im interested in her, especially if i dont know her,
the only good thing at least, is that i never end up in the friend zone , cos that would be even worse!
i realise this is quite a common problem but i guess its really bothering me so i wanted to trow it out!

btw im trying counselling but dont think im gettin anywhere with this confidence thing

finbarrk

Join something like a walking club where you will get used to being in womens company and you will get confidence from it.
You could also read Neil Straus's book 'the game'.