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  • 26-07-2009 10:00pm
    #1
    curious guy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 233 ✭✭


    I live in the country and scored with a hottie that lies pretty near me and seems to be a bit of chemistry texting at the moment. Asked her if she wanted to come to the local town for the spin as I had to get a few things but she said tht she wasnt in the mood. Was that a bad idea? Im 22 shes 21 scored once out.should I go cinema with her or something?


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  • #2
    stopthelights
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30 ✭stopthelights


    maybe she got the wrong idea when you asked her did she want to go for a spin?? Personally I think you should ask her would she like to go to the cinema and either way you'll know from her response where you stand!

    good luck


  • #3
    dudara
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,518 ✭✭✭✭dudara


    Ask her out properly (cinema maybe) and not just "for a spin". If she says no, well then you'll have a clear answer. Maybe she'll say yes.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Asking someone to go for a spin is like what you'd ask the ladies along the canal. She's probably got higher standards than that!!


  • #5
    curious guy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 233 ✭✭curious guy


    yeah that might be it alright feckin yeah i will stick to the tried and tested cinema..might go ask her out tuesday night...It was just my friend just said it about going for spin is all .. Thanks for Advice people...


  • #6
    Zaph
    Registered Users, Subscribers, Registered Users 2 Posts: 47,351 ✭✭✭✭Zaph


    curious guy wrote: »
    yeah dat mite be it alri feckin yeah il stick to the tried and tested cinema..mite go ask her tuesday nit just my friend just said it about going for spin is all .. thanks for advice...

    curious guy, text speak is not permitted in this forum. Please refrain from using it again in the future. Thanks.


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  • #7
    curious guy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 233 ✭✭curious guy


    Okay and I will fix that last one no hassle.


  • #8
    cathead
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17 ✭cathead


    Definitely need to be a bit more explicit in your first 'asking out' out text that just a spin!

    From a girl's perspective, I'd like to know if what I'm being asked is a date or not, because I'm not likely to take the leap otherwise. The cinema etc... is a much better plan as it is more explicitly asking her out as opposed to 'join me in my car!'

    Best of luck with it! :)


  • #9
    shellyboo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,883 ✭✭✭shellyboo


    Hmm. For the wary woman, going for a spin with a bloke you've scored once is a no-no - in an enclosed space with a man you don't know at all, he can take you anywhere and you can't get home without relying on him.

    So that would be a no. Definitely ask her on a proper date!


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