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Not sure what to think!?

  • 26-07-2009 08:54PM
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Ok to cut a long story short I'm a guy and have been friends with a certain girl for some years now. We always got along great and often socialise together with a common group of friends. In the past we would send the odd text to each other here and there to keep in touch and all that.

    In the past two weeks I've noticed something. Starting about two weeks ago i noticed that i had been receiving a lot of messages from her on facebook which was fine just a bit odd. In the past week or so she's text me pretty much everyday and we've texted back and forth for hours which is very unusual as never in the years i have known her have we texted each other so much.

    She's been single for a couple of months now after been in a turbulent relationship or two and I've been single for quite a while. In all the times we've known each other nothing has ever happened or been likely to happen, apart from one event a few years back on a night out but again nothing happened as we were frankly too drunk.

    I really dont know what to think and am wondering what yall make of the situation.


Comments

  • #2
    waitinforatrain
    Closed Accounts Posts: 267 ✭✭waitinforatrain


    Ask her ;)


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I would work out how you feel about her first before asking her ... by the sound of it i would say she is definitely thinking of you in a different light.
    Good luck :)


  • #4
    gwjones42
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 174 ✭✭gwjones42


    Do you like her enough to ask her out?? It sounds like she's just waiting to be asked.


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Unregistered wrote: »
    I would work out how you feel about her first before asking her ... by the sound of it i would say she is definitely thinking of you in a different light.
    Good luck :)

    That's the thing, to be honest I'm not sure how I feel about the whole situation. She's a very attractive girl and a real good friend but I'm not sure if she's anything more.

    If this had happened 2 or 3 years back I would have asked her out in a heartbeat but a lot has happened since then that has altered my opinion slightly. She got involved with some 'questionable' guys all of which ended badly.

    She's been saying that she wants to go the cinema to see some film and I said I'd go later in the week. Again nothing unusual here just that I'm not sure if she's invited out other friends this time like we normally do.


  • #6
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    She wants you to ask her out - no question about it


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