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What does it mean when a girl that you fancy tells you...

  • 22-07-2009 4:29pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    what does it mean when a girl that you fancy tells you that you remind her of her ex boyfriend? is this good or bad?


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  • #2
    Wagon
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,119 ✭✭✭Wagon


    Bad. Cos they broke up. Why in gods name would she tell you that though?


  • #3
    Terodil
    Closed Accounts Posts: 809 ✭✭✭Terodil


    She's

    [_] stupid
    [_] setting you up for a very hard relationship
    [_] all of the above

    stay clear.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    maybe you have some of the characteristics looks wise, personality wise/ attraction wise etc that she liked in her ex. that's all it means, some are attracted to the same type of guy e.g some like tall, some like petite, some like quiet, some like outgoing girls, people often have a type they fancy and like... that's all...

    just cos she broke up with him doesn't mean it will happen with you... initial attraction or similarities are the same that's all don't worry about it


  • #5
    Oh The Humanity
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,324 ✭✭✭Oh The Humanity


    Very stupid girl.

    Find out who dumped who....if he dumped her then you are a substitute 'him'

    Which is bad.

    If she dumped him....and you remind her of him...this is also bad.....

    In fact its bad all round.


  • #6
    DenMan
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,181 ✭✭✭DenMan


    Maybe he reminds her of the way he used to be. If she broke up with him because he changed (for the worse).


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  • #7
    beertons
    Hosted Moderators Posts: 23,211 ✭✭✭✭beertons


    Bad news, he's an ex for a reason. Doesn't matter who broke up with who.


  • #8
    Agent J
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,909 ✭✭✭Agent J


    Meh. I think people are over reacting a bit.

    It could just be she has a type and you are it.
    Expressing it comparing to a previous ex in early stages of a relationship is a bit off though but it could just be down to expressing herself badly.
    If its just a once off comparison i wouldnt think twice about it.

    If it actually bothers you then have a word with her.


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