Boys, have you ever changed your mind about a girl?

LegacyUser

Boys,

Let me set the scene...you're chasing a girl you like but it's going nowhere. You really really like this girl and she has a hold on you - let's call her Ms. Unavailable.

Then one day you meet another girl and you make a close connection - let's call her Ms.Pretty. She's very pretty, great personality, fun and you like her and she's available to you. She lets you know that she's interested. You see her a few times but all the while you still can't get Ms. Unavailable out of your mind. So you feel bad for stringing along Ms. Pretty and you back off from her. Ms. Pretty understands the situation and backs off too.

Unfortunately, you never get the chance of the relationship you desired with Ms.Unavailable and she kicks you to the curb.

What happens then?

Would you consider Ms. Pretty again? Do boys ever re-visit and chase old flames?

Let me know :-)

Victor

Unregistered wrote: »

Would you consider Ms. Pretty again? Do boys ever re-visit and chase old flames?

Yes and yes.

piby

Victor wrote: »

Yes and yes.

What he said!

Otis Driftwood

If I was Ms Pretty I dont know if I would be happy with being second place.

Oh The Humanity

Yeh, dont be anyones 'leavings'

Novella

How would you feel about being Mr Pretty?!!

Ms Pretty deserves better than being your second best.

Bottle_of_Smoke

You might end up in a sham of a relationship with ms pretty, enjoy sex with her but eventually leave her for someone you really like.

Ms pretty in this scenario is always gonna have second best stamp on her head.

skooterblue

Bottle_of_Smoke wrote: »

Ms pretty in this scenario is always gonna have second best stamp on her head.

I wish you and Ms Pretty all the best but the first time anything goes wrong or any sign of a hair line crack, "You would rather be with Ms. Unavailable, wouldn't you?". Trust your own gut feeling on this one.

Been there done that. Put as much distance between yourself and Ms Unavailable before you start out again.

LegacyUser

I miss Ms Unavailable for about four years. After that time he got exasperated and hooked up with Ms Pretty. Last I heard she was becoming his Mrs. And years I realise I was sadly Ms Guided.

So yep, seen it happy. Just try not to dwell on the (his?) past.

redorblack

We'd all like to go out with the most attractive and bright women but settling for next best happens all the time. I know for a fact a few people that got married past few years that just settled for someone who weren't their first choice. Sometimes feel the whole thing of relationships and marriage is like a high stakes game of musical chairs where you have to grab a partner before the music stops.

Kipperhell

"You can't always get what you want but you might just find you get what you need"

OP I am a bit confused on who you are in this situation. It seems you are Ms. Unavailable and now he has moved on you seem to want him? Given that yes it would be possible he would consider you again. Given you may not actually want him and have never been in a relationship with him I doubt you actually want him! You would want to be sure you want him and not want what he has.

In saying that I am not sure if I got this right at all.

seahorse

You dont need either woman here. You need to find Miss available AND pretty.

dny123456

seahorse wrote: »

You dont need either woman here. You need to find Miss available AND pretty.

She's pretty unavailable.