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  • 19-07-2009 9:08pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    so long story short.. my boyfriend of a year broke up with me 2 months ago. I was totally shocked and devastated. He was from NZ and was going home i had got a great new job so couldnt go over with him :(
    anyway ive accepted its over but he wouldnt stop contacting me for about 6 wks after,emails texts facebook etc i ignored them all until he just wasnt getting it and making it so hard for me to move on, so I told him i would be deleting him from everything and needed space..since then i have heard nothing from him and its really helping me! it has only been 3 wks without any contact and im doing well... but now i have a date on wednesday (which my friends are telling me i should go on).

    I met this cute nice guy out on friday night and he asked me out for during the wk! im not excited or nervous i really just dont care! isnt that so awful? The thoughts of kissing another guy seems difficult let alone anything else..even when im drunk im just thinking i dont want to touch another guy! I was(am??) so in love with my ex!

    I know i need to move on but is it too soon to even try?(2 months) I dont want to come across as a bitch and im so not in the place for just ''fun'' so im thinking why even bother! ugh..id appreciate any help you guys can give me!
    Thanks so much for reading


Comments

  • Closed Accounts Posts: 195 ✭✭Astrogeek


    You don't want to be with this guy. You aren't even attracted to him bar thinking he is cute. How about canceling the date? Just enjoy being man-less for a while. Concentrate on taking care of you. And start dating again when you feel you will enjoy dating.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 809 ✭✭✭Terodil


    Aye, don't do anything you don't want to do. Remember that you're in no obligation to this guy, and that you'd probably be fairer on him too if you didn't give him false hopes.

    Good luck. You'll find happiness yet :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    This other guy has feelings too and I know you could have in that moment felt like you could consider dating but if you had any doubts at all you shouldn't have made plans to meet up with him. He sounds like a nice guy.


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