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  • 19-07-2009 12:33am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Going unreg for this.....
    The siituation is....... Im in my twenties, finished with a girl a couple of years ago and was distraught, didn know what to do!!...in the end i got a job locally and messed it up.....Got in trouble by the police, so i decided to move away for a while....... Which she knew and understood why i had to leave..... she asked me to keep in contact but i didn for her sake....:)the night before i left,she said she regretted finishing with me and wanted to visit me where i moved too. i rejected.... :(
    2 years on now and i miss her sooo much...
    i cant contact her cos i think she's with someone new, and if she isn't i dont think she'd want to hear from me now.... what should i do?????????


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  • #2
    Astrogeek
    Closed Accounts Posts: 195 ✭✭Astrogeek


    You either contact her or you move on with your life. I think you should move on. You have already rejected her, more than once. If I was her I really don't know if I would be able to forgive you.


  • #3
    Liam Byrne
    Closed Accounts Posts: 18,163 ✭✭✭✭Liam Byrne


    First of all, count yourself lucky that she still wanted to be in touch.
    Secondly, suss out if she's with someone - if she is leave her alone.
    Thirdly, you left her and didn't "keep in contact ... for her sake" - why ? If that "for her sake" WAS indeed true, then you wanted to, but it was better not to, then what's changed ? You want to, but what's stopping you not being in touch NOW "for her sake" ?

    But if the reason you thought that is gone, and she's single, then give it a shot. She might well say no, but if the reason was indeed "for her sake", and she can see that, then you might still have a shot.

    But be bloody careful! You've rejected her twice, so if you do get the third chance it'll probably be on the basis of "third strike and you're out".


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