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  • 18-07-2009 2:49pm
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hey,

    Going unreg for this.

    I was bored earlier so I went online and into a chat room. I was chatting to a few girls from Ireland, and got chatting to one from Dublin. We spent about 5-10 minutes chatting in the chat room then went onto MSN. Now this is where things get a bit intimidating.

    She asked me if I was going out tonight and I said no and she then asked if I wanted her to come over and keep me company and could I pick her up. Just so there's no confusion, it was obvious that this was going to lead to sex if she did come over.

    I have to be honest though, I was completely taken back and kind of shocked. It sort of panicked me a bit and seemed a bit scary if I'm being completely honest.

    Has anything like this happened to any other guys on here and is it normal for me to be freaked out a bit by it? If it has happened to other guys, did you go through with it?

    It's a bit mad as I was talking to another girl a short while before that for about 5 minutes and she said she had to go as an ex came online and she said was it ok for her to give me her number, which she then did! I'm not sure what's going on or if the room I was in was just full of weirdo's/desperate people.

    Thoughts?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Shock horror adults using the internet to hook up for sex.
    Yes it happens, this is the 21st centure and there are women who just want to have sex.
    If you are going to take part in such adnventures keep your self safe as possible.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 390 ✭✭marbar


    were you on adult friend finder by chance?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Nope, just on a regular free chat room. Yeah I'm a bit iffy about this, I was only chatting to her a few minutes and she messaged me there now again saying she missed me. That's impossible, we've hardly spoke.

    I'm sure later on tonight if I'm horny I'll be sort of wishing something had happened but this all seems a bit too much too soon.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,925 ✭✭✭Otis Driftwood


    Im not suggesting that she wasnt simply attracted to you but Ive heard of things like this happening involving prostitutes or whatever.Guys getting mugged etc.

    Id tread very wearily my friend and if I was you,I would delete her number and forget about it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Looks like the mods haven't posted my last reply.

    Yeah, I've decided to skip this one. We'd only been talking a few minutes and she went offline for a while. When she came back on she asked had I missed her and said that she missed me. I was like "wtf ???" She then wanted to keep in touch via Facebook and I had big reservations about this so I changed the subject. I then logged onto Facebook and did a search and found her profile and it said she was engaged.

    Anyway, the only info I have of hers is her MSN address so I've deleted her off my MSN list and blocked her. We didn't swap numbers so I don't have to delete that.

    Defo a strange experience!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 490 ✭✭Munstermad


    She sounds a wee bit touched, stay well clear, no wonder your freaked out. :eek:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 44,080 ✭✭✭✭Micky Dolenz


    Here's a tip, never invite strangers from the internet to your home. she may just what random sex, Thats ok, meet her for a drink in a neutral pub and see what happens. Thats what I would do.


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