When is it too soon to ask/find ou?

LegacyUser

Hi all,
I am seeing someone for the past month, I know they like me and I like them alot.
I just have one small problem,
as we are only seeing each other, when they are on a night out they are free to be with whoever they want and the thought of that is starting to get to me a little.

I just wanted some advice about when is a good time to broach the subject of just being with each other and seeing how it goes or is that out of line so soon after a month?

Also is it a guy thing to ask this or more up to the girl?

Thanks for your help

I wouldn't say it's particularly up to the guy or the girl, just whoever approaches the subject first. That said, I'm a girl and I'd probably wait for the guy to instigate any sort of serious "us" talk.

Go for it

WeeBushy

Yeah, I certainly don't think its too soon. Go for it!

You say you only really see each other on night outs? Well I don't think that would be the best time to have the conversation; loud noises, lots of people, drunk etc. so if you have their number give them a call and ask if they want to meet up and do it then.

Good luck!

SarahSassy

Are you sleeping with each other?

LegacyUser

I'm in the exact same scenario OP. Have been seeing a girl for a month or two now. We havent had a serious talk about whats going to happen and I dont know if she even wants to get serious! But i guess if you know she likes you and you do meet up on nights out then there is something to build on!

Taltos

Agree with the above - the sooner you ask the sooner you will know. This might mean though you will find out that the other person might only be interested in a casual thing - so please be prepared for that.