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Can life get much worse?

  • 18-07-2009 12:01am
    #1
    confussed.com
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16 ✭


    as some of ye know how things are going with me, my ex cheated on me with my best friend after 3 years together....


    fast forward 3 years and i finally found a new love we've been together 4 years, then last week my ex shows up after all these years and trys to kiss me and tells me she still has feelings for me and i started to fall for her but manged to resist her,then she went back to OZ, i was feeling so good about my current GF and when u arrived at her house tonite to surprize her she was in bed with a friend of mine.. i rang my ex to see where she was but she was in dublin airport.. im heartbroken i cant belive this has happened twice..i feel like i cant go on with life.. im thinkin of gettin flights to OZ and join my EX.. please help


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Hi Confussed,
    Man you have been unlucky with your past two relationships, and nobody but you knows what you are experiencing and going through right now, but please dont do anything drastic, you have been here before and you got through it, hard as it was. You deserve to be happy, dont let those 2 cows win, and dont worry, not all women are like them, you just have to keep lookin. Try to think positively, surround yourself with family and friends who make you smile and feel good about yourself, and do things you enjoy, and slowly but surely things will start to look up.

    Sounds like you dont even realise how strong you are, you should be proud of yourself, you've gone through the hardest part, now you can look forward to the future, something great could be just around the corner.

    Stay strong!


  • #3
    Moomoo1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,960 ✭✭✭Moomoo1


    sorry - I'd have had a chat with you, but I had to travel home after working late.


  • #4
    Latchy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    Jeeze OP if it's easy to just get on a plane to Aus or anywere else , away from your situation then go , good luck .


  • #5
    Moomoo1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,960 ✭✭✭Moomoo1


    and what exactly is he going to do when he gets there?


  • #6
    Latchy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    how the hell would I know ?.He wouln't be the first or last person to want to head off as far away as possible form a situation such as his ....


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  • #7
    StopNotWorking
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 645 ✭✭✭StopNotWorking


    Jaysus.

    Only reason I see in going to Aus would be to get revenge on the ex. And maybe to have a nice holidays. Don't fall for her OP, she cheated on you! Sure people make mistakes but don't forget the lessons you learned. How did you feel when she cheated on you? Do you honestly want to risk that again with her?

    I say f**k(not literally, you might catch something) her and the recent ex, Cheating cows. You're better then them both a thousand times over.


  • #8
    Moomoo1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,960 ✭✭✭Moomoo1


    Latchy wrote: »
    how the hell would I know ?.He wouln't be the first or last person to head off as far away as possible form a situation such as his ....

    true, but if you do decide to head off, it's good to make sure you are heading off somewhere nice...


  • #9
    G-Money
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,199 ✭✭✭G-Money


    I'm not sure going after your ex is a good idea. It's not good that she cheated on you with a friend and then she shows up, bats her eyelids and expects you to go off with her. Maybe she's changed but I could never trust a girl who did that to me.

    I have to say OP, you've been really unlucky and I've never been in your situation so I'm not going to say I know what its like. But I really hope things get better for you soon.


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