Need a guy's opinion!

LegacyUser

Looking for a guys opinion on this one!
Recently I had a fling with a friend of a friend on holidays who I really liked (and I think he really liked me). However, after we had sex I bled (quite a bit). Obv, i was mortified and pretty freaked out but went to the doc when I got home and turns out I had a medical condition due to the pill which is not serious.

Anyway my query is.. guys what would you think if a girl bled after sex? Would you think she was a virgin, had an std or that she tore? I really liked this guy but I think he was seriously put off by what happened and I can't blame him. He was nice about it at the time but I can't help thinking he must have thought I was a virgin and wanted to run a mile!!

He doesn't live near me but I'm going to visit friends who live near him soon and I would like to get in touch cos I did really like him. Should I even bother though after all of this??

Miss Fluff

Sex isn't always like it is in porn or the movies.

Any sexually experienced and MATURE adult will realise and accept that bleeding/snapping of banjo strings/fanny farts/strange noises and a plethora of unanticipated occurences can happen.

Of course give the guy a shout. If he is mature he will accept what happened as part and parcel of "just one of those things", as indeed should you m'dear.

monkeyfudge

I've had that happen before and I've never thought too much of it anyway. Just as long as the girl wasn't in any discomfort or pain.

petes

Having had the banjo string incident happen to me before (ouch), had sex with then girlfriend while she was on her period it wouldn't bother me at all.

Shouldn't really bother him either. Contact him. If he's mature enough and likes you it will be grand. If not, hey, you asked.

StopWhispering

Insurgent wrote: »

Having had the banjo string incident happen to me before (ouch), had sex with then girlfriend while she was on her period it wouldn't bother me at all.

Shouldn't really bother him either. Contact him. If he's mature enough and likes you it will be grand. If not, hey, you asked.

Well I had this discussion with a few mates before and they all seem to agree that it's no big deal, they'd tend to think that it was a cut or something. Certainly not an STD. And we'd assume you'd mention it to us if it was the period.

So I think you'll be grand if you meet him again.

Dean820

It would freak me out a tiny bit but if you were a nice girl and I liked you then I would look past it.

StopNotWorking

If it was me then I would just be more worried about your health then messy sheets.(although the possible risk of some nasty STD would probably linger in my mind for a while)

CuLT

Wouldn't really occur to me that it would be an STI to be honest; first thought would be "period", second might be virgin, but in my experience the only people who are concerned with virginity are virgins

A non-issue, I think.

WeeBushy

Well did he hang around after he noticed or did he run out of the room screaming?

Personally if it happened I would prob be a tiny bit grossed but not nearly enough for it to be an issue. More my problem for being childish really!

Sure get in contact with him if you like him and see what happens.

Liber8or

If it was his first time having sex, he would probably have been freaked out by it, but with experience you come to realise these things happen and its pretty much normal.

Give him a call and see if he responds positively. If he doesn't then it is his loss because this type of issue will probably happen to him again with some other girl and then it becomes something he needs to sort out and mature.

His loss if he doesn't want to see you.