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How to behave in bed with a woman ?

  • 16-07-2009 12:45am
    #1
    super_metroid
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 168 ✭✭


    i recently spent the night with a woman. It was my first time. I tried to be polite and show respect. The woman said i was a good guy and was very polite which was nice. But she suggested i be a bit more agressive in future. More neanderthal, I am the man i will [SIZE=-1]ta[/SIZE][SIZE=-1]K[/SIZE][SIZE=-1]e yo[/SIZE]u[SIZE=-1] now.

    What level of agression is appropriate, witho[/SIZE]ut offending a woman.

    How do i gauge it ?

    Also as a guy I would li[SIZE=-1]Ke to have sex for ho[/SIZE]urs. What is a womans view on this. Would she see it as too long, inappropriate ?

    than[SIZE=-1]K yo[/SIZE]u


Comments

  • #2
    tbh
    Closed Accounts Posts: 15,914 ✭✭✭✭tbh


    there are no generalizations, every woman, like every man, is different. Some people like to be submissive, others dominant.

    My advice: Use your tongue. Ask her.


  • #3
    BankMan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 143 ✭✭BankMan


    Congrats on the first my man !

    Firstly there's really no right or wrong so long as both parties are comfortable. All I can really advise is get as much practice in (excuse the pun!) as possible, and obviously take all necessary precautions along the way. Your sexual identity will evolve with time and practice - enjoy!


  • #4
    DrIndy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,461 ✭✭✭DrIndy


    BankMan wrote: »
    Congrats on the first my man !

    Firstly there's really no right or wrong so long as both parties are comfortable. All I can really advise is get as much practice in (excuse the pun!) as possible, and obviously take all necessary precautions along the way. Your sexual identity will evolve with time and practice - enjoy!
    True words - every woman is different and every relationship is different - finding out whats right is part of the fun of it all!


  • #5
    petes
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,382 ✭✭✭petes


    I usually find pillow talk with a girl always helps finding things that both of you like. It does for me anyway. Saying that as said above the more practice you get in the more natural it will feel and you will be able to tell from her responses what she likes and dislikes.


  • #6
    Ponster
    Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 10,912 Mod ✭✭✭✭Ponster


    super_metroid wrote: »
    Also as a guy I would like to have sex for hours.

    You mean actual intercourse? For hours non-stop?

    In my little experience it can get sore for some women to be at it for hours.
    To be honest I don't think I'd enjoy it myself...


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  • #7
    r3nu4l
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,399 ✭✭✭✭r3nu4l


    It's been suggested that this thread be moved to PI so that it's more visible and women can give their input. I've no problem with anyone, male or female giving their opinions here. :)

    I'm tempted to leave the thread here for now :)


  • #8
    ChewChew
    Moderators Posts: 24,367 ✭✭✭✭ChewChew


    All woman are different, just like all men have different sexual preferences. We do too! :pac:

    If you plan on seeing your lady friend again, why not ask her what she likes? If she is a nice, caring woman she will not mind you asking and will understand that you may be a little nervous. she may also enjoy the challenge of teaching you ;)


  • #9
    Snowie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭Snowie


    super_metroid wrote: »
    i recently spent the night with a woman. It was my first time. I tried to be polite and show respect. The woman said i was a good guy and was very polite which was nice. But she suggested i be a bit more agressive in future. More neanderthal, I am the man i will [SIZE=-1]ta[/SIZE][SIZE=-1]K[/SIZE][SIZE=-1]e yo[/SIZE]u[SIZE=-1] now.

    What level of agression is appropriate, witho[/SIZE]ut offending a woman.

    How do i gauge it ?


    Congrats.

    maybe more confident making the moves know, when there's a time for kissing and when theres a time to get to the fun not being afraid to make the move's the most
    clear indication I always found was breathing. And how she's behaving .. that's how I gauge thing's...

    there alls sorts of different women who are into many different kinds of sex some want to be kiss passionate and generally very sensual sex and other want it rough and some like it really rough...
    .
    There's a website called www.askmen.com I've found it very useful in the past lots of interesting things to read.

    I


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