Advertisement
If you have a new account but are having problems posting or verifying your account, please email us on hello@boards.ie for help. Thanks :)
Hello all! Please ensure that you are posting a new thread or question in the appropriate forum. The Feedback forum is overwhelmed with questions that are having to be moved elsewhere. If you need help to verify your account contact hello@boards.ie
Hi there,
There is an issue with role permissions that is being worked on at the moment.
If you are having trouble with access or permissions on regional forums please post here to get access: https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058365403/you-do-not-have-permission-for-that#latest

Kissing

  • 14-07-2009 1:21pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hello people, I have a bit of a problem with OH of 1.5 years. He isn't really into snogging unless we are having a bit of how's your father and even then it isn't all of the time.

    I would love nothing more than to have a cuddle on the sofa and a nice snog, you know how you do when you are dating and it is all exciting and you get butterflies?

    He does kiss me but in a peck way, he will say come here and give me a kiss, or kisses my head when we are cuddling up, I just want more passion!

    Has anyone any tips for me? I don't just want to dive on him and make a fool of myself. I need to move in slowly, I want it to be a regular part of our relationship but he says he isn't into it all that much.


Comments

  • #2
    TheCityManager
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 186 ✭✭TheCityManager


    I would think if he's not into it..he's simply not into it....if he were he'd be snogging away...
    Is it something you can live without?
    personally I couldnt ... thankfully my gf loves it too :)


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I think he doesn't like doing it outside of intimate situations. He won't do it just because he feels like it, like I would.

    It isn't a big enough issue to leave him but it does leave me slightly frustrated.

    We did it on our first date and my god, it was heaven! :D


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Make him into it!

    Next time you are cuddling on the sofa and he kisses you, prolong the peck and go in for more little pecks until it progresses. He will soon realise how nice it is and will keep coming back for more! ;)


  • #5
    marthaclark
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 91 ✭✭marthaclark


    I'm kind of .. of the opinion that if it isn't getting better it's going to get a lot worse.

    I would speak to him about how much you like to be kissed like that, and see how he reacts.

    If he really can't get into it, then maybe start thinking seriously about how satisfied you are within the relationship.

    I might be going on a hunch, but this might have more to do with emotional/sexual compatibility than just kissing.


Advertisement