Feeling really low

:(Im with my partner for 4 years now and we have had our good and bad times. He recently moved in with me but his sex drive is at its lowest ever, he just doesnt seem to want to make love. IM 8 years younger then him, he is in his mid 30s.
I feel so rejected, he says its cause he is tired, but even when he kisses me its just a peck on the lips.
Im gutted and feel sick about it.
Has any fellas gone trough this where there sex drive is just low or have I got more to worry about. I cant sleep and im not eatting right with all the stress.
Please help:(

Kevster

Hi,

This could be caused by a few different things. What I think you should do is arrange to have a 'sit-down' (i.e. - a conversation) with him to discuss - as adults - what is going on here. Before doing this, make a list of stipulations, such as:

- No shouting at each other
- 100% honesty
- etc.

Kevin

LegacyUser

Oh you poor pet!

i've been through that. I moved in with my bf years ago and got the same reaction.

I can honestly say it's probably not you no matter how much you worry about it. It's him.

I used to think it was the 5 lbs I put on, or I didn't spice things up enough or I didn't dress up enough....... Them I realised that I was doing an awful lot of the work and needed to calm down and just realise he wasn't as sexual anymore.(also in his 30's I'm 6 yrs younger)

Funnily enough the second I stopped caring the more he wanted it

LegacyUser

deffo have a chat as its not normal, especiall since ye moved in.

also he could have a medical condition, stressed from work could be anything even could be seeing someone else

check him out!