I can't work her out

elgincity

Ok....
me and this gorgeous girl from work had an attraction to each other.. She has certain issues and is highly sexed as am i.... She would treat me different to everyone else.. Not laugh with me when i'm havin the craic with everyone but laugh like a drain when someone makes fun of me, avoid eye contact, never instigate a conv with me but i'd catch het lookin at me when she thought i was'nt lookin etc glances over the shoulder.. usual stuff.. We ended up sleepin together and did the whole fu~k buddy thing for a while... I questioned her about her behaviour but she would dance around the issue and never be straight with me... Wats the story, Girls.. Is she into me?? Or am i mad???!!!!

LegacyUser

Hmmm not2 sure bout that sunflower, sounds 2me lik she is into you but doesnt want to be/doesnt want you to know. That's why she slept with you but then treats u lik that....

LegacyUser

She could be into you but might not want anyone in the office to know about it. Ask her

Oh The Humanity

Yeh, sounds like she was just scratchin an itch. Sorry Dont chase! Leave it!

Eve_Dublin

Hey OP, what do you want to happen with this girl? She doesn't sound very nice....gorgeous and sexy, yup..but she laughs at you if someone cracks a joke at your expense? Sound! We were just discussing this in another thread...sometimes good looks can make you overlook other very blatant character flaws in a person like spite and an obvious nasty streak. If she has issues then they're her issues to deal with. Personally, I'd agree she has issues if she's being nasty to a guy she had something going with....you were obviously friendly enough for her to confide in you and tell you about these issues or even that she has any at all. Just be careful there, OP. Sounds like you'd setting yourself for a dose of wreaked head if you start something with this girl.

prinz

What they said. Tough break but you've been used, by a gorgeous girl, so wouldn't feel too bad about it. On a serious note, yeah she's just not that into you. Sorry.

ladhrann

Remember the words of Leonard Cohen in this regards "but a man never got a woman back Not by begging on his knees I've crawled to you, baby And I fall at your feet I've howled at your beauty Like a dog in....."

And if anyone should know it would be him, he hung with a lot of spitfires back in the day. As well as that if you are both very highly charged, emotion on your side may come across as pathetic.

Just a thought

Sheog

Good old Leonard Cohen, a genius with matters of the heart!

You are clearly into this girl Elgincity, but it's difficult to tell if she feels the same way or not.
On the one hand she could just be making an effort to keep it separate from the work place, or she might actually really like you but is playing it cool in case she comes off too strong. (I know I do that myself.) But on the other hand, how much do you really know about her? Maybe she is in a relationship with someone and that is why she is 'dancing around the issue' whenever you bring it up. Reason I suggest that is because I notice a lot of my colleagues cheating on their partners with their fellow workers on nights out and such.

Is there anyway you can confront her to get some answers? At least then you’d know where you stand…