Cross-dressing

LegacyUser

Ok here it goes. Firstly im 100% straight and have no interest in men whatsoever. Im 6 years living with my girlfriend and we love each other very much but i feel so guilty and always have about the fact that i love to crossdress every once in a while. I often feel like telling her but i dont want to wreck our relationship and sometimes i think keeping it a secret is the best thing for us eventhough deep down i wish i could keep no secrets.

Im a typical male man i love cars, football and hangin out with the lads and all normal lads stuff so she would be shocked to find out i also love to wear make-up, mini skirts and dresses, lingerie and high heels. Its such a stress release and probably only do it one a month. So many times iv thrown every female item i own out and said thats it no more and then a few months down the line go back out and buy a new bra, knickers, suspender belt and stockings, dress, stiletto heels, wig and make-up bag and start all over again!!

Sometimes i hate myelf for it eventhough im a really happy type person!!

Anyone out there wanna share their opinion on this and maybe feel the same??

LegacyUser

I wouldn't beat myself up over this. Loads of people do it and its nothing to be ashamed of.
I could not possibly advise you about telling your wife. Only you could gauge her possible reaction. If telling her about this will damage your relationship then I would keep it to myself.

LegacyUser

Thats what iv always thought. Thanks for the reply.

pwd

Tell her
She might well be freaked out
But it would be much worse for her to find out on her own. She'd wonder what else you've kept from her.
It's surprising that she hasn't found some of the clothes in six years tbh! She probably will at some point, and she'll probably think you're cheating on her.
After six years, she probably won't break up with you on account of it, even if she is really freaked out by it.
You'll feel better for telling her also. It can't be nice to be doing it behind her back.

LegacyUser

OP, my fella told me that he crossed dressed after we were going out a few years, I was shocked at first as I was not expecting it but once I digested it I was totally fine with it. He is still the same person to me.

getonyourboots

Look I like to scratch my balls when watching football on TV but I don't do in in front of the girlfriend. Do they really have to know everything about us?...No. What you do you do it for you and its no one else's business. Its totally harmless and a personnel thing.