The dads of the girls I've been with

LegacyUser

Not sure if this should be in relationship section so mods feel free to move.

Basically guys, when I think of all the girls Ive been with, and then their dads, I get this really weird feeling in my chest. Ive no idea what it is or why its there. This new girl Ive been seeing for a few months, Ill be meeting her dad in a few weeks, and I feel 'bad' I suppose already. Just thinking of where her hands or mouth have been or where mine have been give me this weird feeling. I dont get it though when I think of their mums???

Anyone else ever get this or have any idea what it means?

Thanks in advance

LegacyUser

So 250 views and no one has an opinion or advice?

kayos

As the saying goes have a son and you have one little prick to worry about, have a daughter and you have every prick in town to worry about.

Maybe its because you can understand how you would feel in their shoes. I've never felt bad when meeting the fathers of any girl I have been involved with. Its a fact of life that our children will grow up and become adults.

brownbinman

they were in the same position, only it was years ago.

think your making too much of it, it'll be grand!

Ragana22

I dont reaaly think,that some dad thinking and worrying about what doing his daughter with bf...Its mostly mothers who worry.Problems can be if dad doesnt want to understand,that his little girl grow up,but anyway its only dad's feelings with whom he need to deal.You shouldn't worry about that.

kmick

Say hello, shake hands, answer questions you have been asked politely and truthfully. Then just keep your mouth firmly closed for the rest of the time. Make sure you eat and drink everything you are offered (this is very important). Dont stay too long and when you are leaving say nice to meet you to the mother/father.

That is it.

Easy

petethebrick

Unregistered wrote: »

Not sure if this should be in relationship section so mods feel free to move.

Basically guys, when I think of all the girls Ive been with

So did you come on here with an actual PI or just to boast about all of the girls you've been with?? I've no idea what your point is

drunkmonkey

jesus dude that's weird, I just wonder how big there tractor is...

blubloblu

http://www.xkcd.com/275

Wibbs

petethebrick wrote: »

So did you come on here with an actual PI or just to boast about all of the girls you've been with?? I've no idea what your point is

Ditto. What is your PI and what do you want advice on?
Everyone else let's keep this helpful. Thanks.

LegacyUser

Ok OP, I'm assuming your PI is that you feel somewhat guilty that you have been doing things with your girlfriend that no Dad wants to believe his daughter gets up to, and that you are somehow the cause of her behaving in this way.

I can kind of understand where you're coming from, in that the first time I stayed over in my boyfriend's house (he lives with his parents) I felt terrible and we didn't even do anything!!

I don't really worry about that anymore though, I mean his parents were married with kids by the time they were our age- and how do you think the kids got there?? Your girlfriend's father is more than aware that ye are more than likely doing more than holding hands, but as long as you're being careful I doubt he'd have any problems with you.

I think a girl's father would be much more worried about you being kind and respectful to her, and whether you were going to take care of her feelings.

Anyway- think about it: none of us ever want to think of our parents still having sex (*shudder*)- you may be sure that our parents don't want to think about us doing it either.

Dunno if that's any help, but I tried!!

calahans

You sound like you have catholic guilt. Sex is normal, everyone has parents. Just think where his hands have been!

GirlatdRockShow

yeh,calahan is right,how do you think your gf got here.
Just relax,no point working yourself up about it before you've even met the da.