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Can't say no to affair!

  • 07-07-2009 8:35pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi, going unreg for this one for obvious reasons!

    A married female friend of mine is currently having an affair with a work collegue. She knows it is wrong, and at this stage would even go as far as saying that she actually wants to put a stop to it, not least because he doesnt treat her very nice most of the time, but is mostly using her for sex.

    The problem is, even though she wants to stop it, she says that she just cant seem to!

    Any advice, especially from people who have been in this situation would be appreciated!


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  • #2
    prinz
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    If she really wanted to she would. :confused:

    In an affair with someone who doesn't treat her well, OP tbh how desperate can your friend be?


  • #3
    SarahMc
    Closed Accounts Posts: 517 ✭✭✭SarahMc


    Prinz is correct, she doesn't really want to. Step out OP, and do not allow her to confide in you anymore about how he doesn't treat her well (bet she moans about her hubbie too), how she doesn't want to do this, can't help herself bla bla....this could get very messy.


  • #4
    Astrogeek
    Closed Accounts Posts: 195 ✭✭Astrogeek


    She just sounds attention seeking to be honest. Stop listening to her.


  • #5
    VaioCruiser
    Closed Accounts Posts: 750 ✭✭✭VaioCruiser


    Unregistered wrote: »
    Hi, going unreg for this one for obvious reasons!

    A married female friend of mine is currently having an affair with a work collegue. She knows it is wrong, and at this stage would even go as far as saying that she actually wants to put a stop to it, not least because he doesnt treat her very nice most of the time, but is mostly using her for sex.

    The problem is, even though she wants to stop it, she says that she just cant seem to!

    Any advice, especially from people who have been in this situation would be appreciated!

    Ehhhh I am trying to figure what it is you want advice about ...:confused:

    Are you wondering whether to talk to your colleague about it ? or talk to her about it ? Why would you want to get involved ? In what sense is it wrong ?


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