Lump inside gf

Hman09

Last night, myself and the GF were in bed having sex..
When doing foreplay, I was fingering her and felt a lump inside on the right hand side.

Thing is, I dont know much about the inside, is it supposed to feel like there is something there? Either way I cant stop thinking the worst and not sure to share it with her or not...don't want her to get stressed out over nothing/my lack of biology!:(

LegacyUser

The safest thing is just tell her your worries and go to the doctor. It's probably nothing but better safe than sorry.

Silverfish

Hman09 wrote: »

Last night, myself and the GF were in bed having sex..
When doing foreplay, I was fingering her and felt a lump inside on the right hand side.

Thing is, I dont know much about the inside, is it supposed to feel like there is something there? Either way I cant stop thinking the worst and not sure to share it with her or not...don't want her to get stressed out over nothing/my lack of biology!:(

What if it was something, and you didn't tell her? Really? That's going to make you feel even more stupid.

Tell her now, let her either put your mind at rest or else go to a doctor.

dudara

It could be nothing and it could be something. Tell her and suggest that she goes to her GP to get it checked out.

LegacyUser

Hi there

Probably what you felt was her cerivx!

I found my own by exploring my own body and was shocked to find what I thought was a lump.

It also leans to one side and for all the world feels like the top of a penis!!

Was this similar to what you felt?

lynsalot

Hi OP

It might be nothing. I felt a lump in my breast last year and panicked. Went to the doc and specialist and it turned out to be nothing to worry about - just part of parcel of being a woman. There might be a very easily explained medical reason - mightn't be the worst case scenario (As in could be the urethra or bladder or something mightn't be a "lump") - the GP should know though. And he could put ur mind at rest straight away

In fairness it's all pretty lumpy and bump up in there but it's probably nothing to worry about. If she's had smears and things then chances are it's nothing. Definitely tell her - maybe ask her to come to the doctor with you and tell her on the way or something so she doesn't have it on her mind

Best of luck but i'm sure it's nothing to worry about.

journey

lynsalot wrote: »

Hi OP
maybe ask her to come to the doctor with you and tell her on the way or something so she doesn't have it on her mind

I wouldn't do that to her. Chances are she'll need an internal with the doc and she's not going to want to have that dumped on her at the last minute.

Definitely say it to her though. Who knows, maybe she already knows about it.

Euro_Kraut

Hi OP,

I know you might uncomfortable talking about this with your GF, especially if you haven't been going out that long. However, as other have already said, you have no choice but to say this to her and as soon as possible (as in tonight or tomorrow at the very latest).

In this circumstance you need to put your own feelings of awkwardness aside for the greater good. Her health takes precedence over everything else.

Good luck with everything.

Trinity

Just say it to her, are you sure its not her cervix? (or the neck of her womb)

Obviously it didnt hurt when you pressed it?

She can self examine herself then go to the doc, but say it to her!

Silverfish

This is veering towards medical advice.

We can't tell you what it is or isn't, but you need to say it to her.