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Meeting women when sober

  • 05-07-2009 3:16am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    For somebody that doesn't drink, I find myself hardly attracted much to anyone in niteclubs. I go with the intention of hooking up with a women, but, minus the drink, the majority of women are no longer desirable. I know some men make some false fabrications in order to get laid, just because the person happens to have a pussy, but that is not my style. Then the people out in the smoking area weren't very nice, and weren't giving any cigs away. I think if I get to know more girls, then I would automatically feel the attraction? Yeah? Communication might be a better tool. When I was a drinker, things seemed to flow much more naturally for me in bars and clubs. Perhaps I should go online for women ( a woman ;).
    There I can communicate for a while, meet up, and get to know her!


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  • #2
    Kimia
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,897 ✭✭✭Kimia


    This post is weird. What are you asking? You want to find a woman? Maybe if you didn't go to niteclubs (sober or not) with the express intention of getting laid you may do better? It's very obvious when a guy is just into one thing. It doesn't sound like you are looking for a relationship - you're just looking for sex.

    And by the way smokers don't have to give their cigarettes away to you. If you want to smoke in the smoking area, go buy some cigarettes.


  • #3
    Riverpineapple
    Closed Accounts Posts: 142 ✭✭Riverpineapple


    Kimia wrote: »
    This post is weird. What are you asking? You want to find a woman? Maybe if you didn't go to niteclubs (sober or not) with the express intention of getting laid you may do better? It's very obvious when a guy is just into one thing. It doesn't sound like you are looking for a relationship - you're just looking for sex.

    And by the way smokers don't have to give their cigarettes away to you. If you want to smoke in the smoking area, go buy some cigarettes.


    There's nothing wrong with just wanting sex and not looking for an exclusive relationship but when you go out with the primary goal of just wanting sex women can feel a vibe of neediness off you. I would say concentrate on going out sobre and having as much fun as you can first by talking to lots of people ( girls and guys).


  • #4
    Hels88
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13 ✭Hels88


    If you go out with only one intention its really obvious to women. Even if they're drunk they'll know you're only after one thing and you'll appear really desperate. When you are out just try to have fun and chat to people, even if they aren't the hottest girls there, you'll then appear less desperate.

    As for meeting girls when sober rather than looking online why not try a new sport such as tag rugby or join a club in something that interests you. Best of luck.


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