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16 year old trouble

  • 04-07-2009 10:31pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    So today I was out with 2 friends after about an hour or 2 one of my friends says "right i'm going home" so I sayd "Right so see ya" and we went in separate directions. The other guy lives on the same road as him and so they went off.
    I thought we were all going home. I knew it was early so I hid behind a bush and watched them as they headed off past both their houses & went off together.

    This situation will prob happen again so what should I do?


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  • #2
    CCCP^
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    First of all, stop hiding in bushes. That's dodgy business. If you feel a bit miffed that your two friends went to hang out together without you, remeber you did say you were heading home too. Maybe they changed their plans as they walked along together? I wouldn't think too much about this, really.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
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    CCCP^ wrote: »
    First of all, stop hiding in bushes. That's dodgy business. If you feel a bit miffed that your two friends went to hang out together without you, remeber you did say you were heading home too. Maybe they changed their plans as they walked along together? I wouldn't think too much about this, really.

    I don't think so. They would have text me or something. I could kind of feel they up to something. I mean he says "I going home" As we pass the turn off to my house.
    If was the first time I hid. Well you could say I stopped in front of a bush, so they could not see me. It doesn't happen regularly ( the hiding).


  • #4
    Eun
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    OP didnt say she was going home. It seems there were ditching her...I wouldn't know what to say in this situation. But then again they were both lads so maybe they like doing something you have no interest in? But I will agree that you shouldn't look too much into it.


  • #5
    Kimia
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,897 ✭✭✭Kimia


    Sometimes when you're younger and in a 3some friendship 2 of the friends will pair off within that 3some to make themselves feel special. I mean, they 'pick' each other and that makes them feel better because the other person wants to hang around with them exclusively more than the 3rd person.

    I don't think they're doing it on purpose but you should try and expand your social scene and also act as if it means absolutely nothing to you.

    When you're 16 3some friendships are very difficult because there's that 'left out' feeling that you don't get when you're older. I know what it's like I've been there as part of the 2 (within the 3) and the 3rd left out and it feels horrible.

    It's not a reflection on you though OP it's just that they may have more in common than you do with those particular two. Don't feel bad, be independant and try and have lots of friends so that you don't feel left out.

    And don't hide in bushes!!! Can you imagine the shame of it if you were caught!!


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