Advertisement
If you have a new account but are having problems posting or verifying your account, please email us on hello@boards.ie for help. Thanks :)
Hello all! Please ensure that you are posting a new thread or question in the appropriate forum. The Feedback forum is overwhelmed with questions that are having to be moved elsewhere. If you need help to verify your account contact hello@boards.ie
Hi there,
There is an issue with role permissions that is being worked on at the moment.
If you are having trouble with access or permissions on regional forums please post here to get access: https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058365403/you-do-not-have-permission-for-that#latest

query

  • 30-06-2009 5:31pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    sometimes i find my biyfriend very attractive. Other times, i don't. When i don't, i see him as a different person. It's shallow but it's true. It has a negative impact on our relationship.is this common?


Comments

  • #2
    WeeBushy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,572 ✭✭✭WeeBushy


    As in you dont like your boyfriend when he's not looking his best?

    That's very shallow. In fact i love my girlfriend even more when she's just out of bed, no make up and hair a complete mess, cuz that the real her (and imho i think she's a slammin hotty either way :p)

    I would think that's uncommon... but maybe that's just me.


  • #3
    grind gremlin
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 420 ✭✭grind gremlin


    http://www.beachbrowser.com/Archives/Science-and-Health/July-99/Attraction-Menstrual-Cycle-Linked.htm

    Apparently its linked to your menstrual cycle.... looking for a different type of man at different times :)
    Pretty interesting and definitely was like this with my ex


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    i dont think its shallow, you cant help how you feel.
    you can love someone but not fancy them


  • #5
    WeeBushy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,572 ✭✭✭WeeBushy


    Unregistered wrote: »
    i dont think its shallow, you cant help how you feel.
    you can love someone but not fancy them

    Obviously you can't help how you feel but that doesn't make it not shallow.

    It's terrible. If he was the kind of guy who never made an effort and was always a slobbish mess then fine, he doesn't want to make an effort for her and of course it would affect their relationship. But nobody looks at their best all the time and I would consider it unusual that she couldn't get over that.

    Again though that's just me, and I am in the minority here!


Advertisement