Faithfullness

LegacyUser

Just want to ask has anyone experienced anything like this.
I am currently in a relationship and am faithful to my boyfriend, growing up my dad was not faithful and i saw the hurt it caused so dont want to do it to someone eles,

I am not judgemental of others who do cheat as i feel we all have to make our own decisions.

Recently though friends of mine who are in long term relationships, who are cheating on there partners have started to leave me out of nights out and dont tell me if they are with other men, normally i find out when talking with other friends. We are a group of four friends and the three other go out socially and away for weekends and dont ask me.

Im am not judgemental and feel it is there choice what they do but cant help feeling hurt that i am left out.

Just wondering has this happened to any one eles.

Thanks

cat_rant

Hiya OP,

I have to say for me personally Faithfullness is a corner stone for me in any relationship. And although I may not judge others who are unfaithfull. ( OK I KINDA DO) I do sometimes feel uncomfortable with the knowledge of their deceptions. Also do not like going out with a friend and then find that they bugger off to their other activitiers and I am used as the cover story. It has happened once or twice in the past.

Perhaps it's the case that their preception of you and your thoughts on the matter are what makes them exclude you from their plans. Or maybe they feel guitly about it arround you. Could it be that they find solidarity together? We really don't know do we?

It might be something entirely diffrent? Personally I think that you can either chat to them about the exclusion or leave it be and move on any make other plans with other people.

My opinion is that it sounds like a pot on the boil that could easily overflow. If I was in your shoes I would take a big ole step back away from that group of people.

Good Luck

galwaybob

Your friends probably fear you may blow the whistle on their slutty behavior, after all you are the only one with nothing to lose.
Cheating on your partner was traditionally the domain of the male, is it true to say that more and more woman are now doing the dirt as well?

cat_rant

I would think it's true to say that infidelity is on the rise in all area's and social groups. Or at least people are speaking about it more....