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Do I forget him?

  • 25-06-2009 8:15pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I'm expecting a bit of abuse after this post, so feel free to be honest. I'll try make it as short as possible.


    Three nights ago... I met this guy (* Luke). Couldn't stop talking all night. ALOT of chemistry, but I just felt a click that I don't think I've ever really felt before. It's only been three days and I already cannot get this chap out of my head.

    The problem is... two weeks ago my friend (* Clare) and Luke kissed... and I have also kissed Lukes friend (*Niell) twice.

    I know the obvious thing is to ignore it, not mention it and forget it. But we clicked on so many levels. I am so sick of not having any confidence, I'm so sick of feeling basically worthless. People have said I'm "hot" but I'm not pretty. I'm really strange about relationships and I tend to be VERY cynical and pessimistic. I don't trust alot of guys, and I am VERY wary of being messed around.There's nothing overly great about my personality, so once a guy sees he wont be (for use of a better phrase) getting any, he ****s off pretty quick. But this guy... was different.


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  • #2
    newtoboards
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 418 ✭✭newtoboards


    If neither of you are attached and both of you are interested then go for it. You've nothing to loose by finding out if there's more than just thinking there's something there.


  • #3
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    Pixie5 wrote: »
    I don't trust alot of guys, and I am VERY wary of being messed around.There's nothing overly great about my personality, so once a guy sees he wont be (for use of a better phrase) getting any, he ****s off pretty quick. But this guy... was different.

    Woah!!! That is madness.
    If a guy ****s off preety quick like that, it is because he can't be bothered to put effort into finding out who you are.
    It is a comment on his personality not yours!

    Kissing is all very innocent. If there has been nothing more than that.
    I don't see why anyone would too put out.
    I know my friends wouldn't be.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    My friend has a thing for him though...however the feelings aren't mutual.

    She already gave out to me for being too flirty so thats really my issue


  • #5
    Sarah W
    Closed Accounts Posts: 71 ✭✭Sarah W


    Whoah! Slow down! I think a lot of your 'issues' are down to wanting to grow up waaay to fast (if you are in your 30's please ignore this post). Start talking, developing friendships and a good sense of who you are as a person before jumping into intense relationships. Easier said than done, I know but there really is no rush....*

    (People from Rush - no offence :D )


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