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Vibrators

  • 18-06-2009 9:33pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    hi,going unreg for this. Been seeing this guy for the last 6 months. Met him through work. we have been sleeping together for the last two months. Thing is. I have been using a vibrator before that for obvious reasons and now I can't come with him during sex. I can't even myself. Don't whether i can even pull put the damn thing to help us out as a) he is a guy from work b) its not that serious c) don't want it around the office if we break up soon after. Not saying he is that type of guy, but you have take these things into consideration.

    Anyone any suggestions as to how I get over this problem. Sick of friggin faking it. :)


Comments

  • #2
    RealistSpy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,686 ✭✭✭RealistSpy


    You doesn't have to fake if you don't climax it's not your fault, as far as I know most women rarely. You tell him the truth, tell him he was close and whatever. :)

    And about the vibrators, women have to please themselves once in a while yeh?


  • #3
    sachamama
    Closed Accounts Posts: 146 ✭✭sachamama


    does he turn you on at all? or is it just a casual thing that suits you both? if he does turn you on, its only a matter of a few days or so going without the toy before you're sensitivity will be increased and it will all be lovely.


  • #4
    humanji
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,976 ✭✭✭✭humanji


    It can be awkward trying to bring it up with him since it's a casual thing, but have you tried different positions or more foreplay etc?


  • #5
    shellyboo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,883 ✭✭✭shellyboo


    Is this just a sex thing? It is by the sounds of it.


    Why, in the name of sanity, are you having a casual sex relationship with someone when the sex is no good?! Makes NO sense. You've created half the situation yourself by faking it in the first place, though.

    Either come clean with him and tell him you're going to need more stimulation, or go off and find someone else who presses the right buttons. It has nothing to do with using sex toys, if anything they increase your sex drive!


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