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Tips on getting past a major major crush

  • 17-06-2009 12:47am
    #1
    magicianz
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,115 ✭✭✭


    So i met a girl around 2 years ago and i can honestly say that i have never felt more for a girl! Add what ive felt all my ex's and multiply by 1000 and it aint close. Shes the perfect balance of everything i want in a girl. We were going to get together but because her and her best friend weren't getting on since i met both of them, i had to back off. Now shes with a bf for 9 months, i haven't had a good relationship in a year and a half, and im only 17.

    Anyone have tips to get past her/forget?


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  • #2
    zxcvbnm1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 422 ✭✭zxcvbnm1


    magicianz wrote: »
    We were going to get together but because her and her best friend weren't getting on since i met both of them, i had to back off.

    i don't understand this comment?


  • #3
    magicianz
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,115 ✭✭✭magicianz


    zxcvbnm1 wrote: »
    i don't understand this comment?

    Me and the girls best friend (girl B from now) were flirting a lot and girl A (major crush) was angry with girl B because of this. They had been best friends for a long time so i stepped away from them to leave things cool off between them. (they are best friends still)


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    So you were crazy about this girl and yet you were flirting with her best friend! Why on earth did you do that?

    This all sounds very immature to me. As yo get older you'll meet other women that you like as much and probably more then her. You are probable over-idealising what you had with her now that it's over. Juts get on with your life your feelings for her will fade over time. It's tough being young I, I know.


  • #5
    asdasd
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,185 ✭✭✭asdasd


    So you were crazy about this girl and yet you were flirting with her best friend! Why on earth did you do that?

    standard stuff. We are programmed to do this kind of thing. Presumably it worked when we were hunter gatherers.

    With Maturity the OP will work out that it doesnt work now.


  • #6
    castle
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 497 ✭✭castle


    Ask yourself the question why do you want to get over her, why not tell her how you feel,she might feel the same and maybe it was her friend who really fancied you and they had this silly thing that no man will come between us.
    Is there a chance that has happened


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  • #7
    magicianz
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,115 ✭✭✭magicianz


    castle wrote: »
    Ask yourself the question why do you want to get over her, why not tell her how you feel,she might feel the same and maybe it was her friend who really fancied you and they had this silly thing that no man will come between us.
    Is there a chance that has happened

    There was a chance but with her getting on so badly her best friend and she was going to go so far as to distance herself from her best friend, i decided to pull away from them. They are best friends still.


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