Sex stories online about someone I know

LegacyUser

Ok there's a girl that I have been briefly with every now and then. I'm probably going to be going on a date with next week again.

She's got quite an unusual name and so bored at work today I googled her just to see what was out there. Anyway the usual social networking stuff came up and at the very end of the results was a page linking to an erotic fiction site. Now I didn't click in because I'm at work but her full name is used and the guy's name (first name only) I believe is the same as an ex of hers.

Now she's the only person that comes up when you google her name (name and spelling being very unusual) so I don't think it's about anyone else. I doubt highly that she would have put it up there herself - possibly an ex getting back at her or something?

I don't know whether to mention it to her next time I'm talking to her or not. I'm sure she'd be quite embarrassed if she knew. Advice?

My name is URL

Don't mention it to her. Firstly it's none of your business and secondly if she doesn't know about it she won't be embarressed.

For all you know she could have wrote it herself and bringing it up will make you look like a perv that's been stalking her online

panda100

Definatly dont mention it.

I went on a date with a guy last year who told me all the things that came up when he googled me (lots of stuff;some good, some bad), he came across as very stalkerish! By all means bring it up a good few months down the line when you know the person a bit better.

topper75

You can get around the stalker thing by googling her when she is in the room, for a 'laugh', and showing it to her. She might provide answers. Then again, she might not.

LegacyUser

Yeah. I'm not stalking her at all or anything, I was googling loads of people I know and did her too.

Anyways I probably won't mention it. For all I know she knows about it and could even be still in touch with the guy. We certainly don't know each other that well and it's just a casual thing so none of my business really if it's up there or not.

And as someone stated she could have written it herself.

Thanks for the advice.

Overheal

I hope you didnt read it. Though it could have easily been a fiction, even if written by her, like so much erotic literature on the internet.

LegacyUser

Nah didn't read it. I'm at work so don't think HR would appreciate me visiting a site like that.

I won't be reading it. I don't want to know what someone else is thinking about her thanks very much.

Overheal

Thats what im saying. Reading it would only do damage. I'd chalk it down to she wrote a fiction and fughettaboutit as the Brooklynians say.

upmeath

topper75 wrote: »

You can get around the stalker thing by googling her when she is in the room, for a 'laugh', and showing it to her.

Don't do this either, it may look premeditated. Wait a while, see if you're going anywhere with her first, if it's still bothering you in a few months, put the matter to rest.

zuroph

or just email the site and ask them to edit the name, saying its you or whatever. they'll usually oblige, and that'll be the end of it.

sam34

zuroph wrote: »

or just email the site and ask them to edit the name, saying its you or whatever. they'll usually oblige, and that'll be the end of it.

he doesnt really have the right to do that.
for all we know, she might have written the story, or might have given permission to an ex to post it.

if it's really bothering him, he should mention it to her.

tosh_thedude

With a world population of over 3 billion people, somebody out there is sure to have the same name....regardless of how strange it is spelt, so it might not even be her anyways. Oh and I'd bring up googling names in general conversation and ask her has she ever googled her own name?

LegacyUser

sunflower27 wrote: »

Mty name is unusual... I joined facebook and I am the only one with my name... I wouldnt mention the googling to her as a question too early though as it looks a little suspect, but I'd definitely throw it in there at some point

Just because somebody with your name isnt a facebook or twitter use, don't mean they dont exsist in the world \ world of internetting.