My friends girlfriend keeps emailing me nude pictures of herself.

LegacyUser

I have this friends who met this girl about a year ago. Everything was fine at first, except that I wasn't seeing the friend in question as much as I would have liked. So after about 3 months my friend and I decided that my group of friends and his girlfriends would go away. When on holidays my friends girlfriend kept trying to take off all her clothes in front of me, claiming she wanted to sun herself. I explained to her that as my friends girlfriend that I would find this display slightly unconformable, so she decided to keep her clothes on when I was around.

My friendship with my friends partner grew into a decent acquaintance relationship, but the problem I had with her is it always feels like she is being super flirty with me. Every time we are out she is always sitting beside me and rubbing her legs against me. Recently she has been emailing me pictures of her naked, and I feel very uncomfortable with the situation.

My friends is very nonchalant about the relationship and if I was to explain the situation to him I feel he would think I was looking too deeply into this.

I want this behavior to stop, but not at the cost of a friend, or his relationship.

What can I do?

lynsalot

Hi OP

I think you should tell your friend. If she's coming onto you where there should be boundaries then god knows what she gets up to when he's not around. That behaviour is not acceptable at all. The next thing will be she'll blame you and you'll lose your friend. I'd be very careful about this one and definitely nip in the bud. Talk to him and tell him the truth. Show him the emails.

I can't imagine my husband being non chalant about me sending naked pics to someone....

StopNotWorking

You think your friend wont mind this? I would tell him about it and explain to him that you want nothing to do with her that way. If he is your mate then he will take your word for it. Also there should be settings to block any emails from certain people. You should be able to set it so anything she sends you goes straight to the junk folder.

LadyJ

Pretty simple. Block her. Tell your friend. You're probably only beating around the bush because your getting naked pics of a girl.

drunkmonkey

you better sit down with him and have a few beers, just be straight "Dude, your bird keeps sending me naked pictures of herself, fancy another beer?"

Why don't I have these kind of problems:(

thebiggestjim

I think you should post the naked pictures of her in this thread and send her a link to it. I have a feeling she will stop sending you them.

discobeaker

I agree.... get them up on line then send the link around to everyone you know to show just what she is like and embarrass the hell out of her. In greek she would be called a "slaggus ballbagus" i think!

Zaph

thebiggestjim wrote: »

I think you should post the naked pictures of her in this thread and send her a link to it. I have a feeling she will stop sending you them.

discobeaker wrote: »

I agree.... get them up on line then send the link around to everyone you know to show just what she is like and embarrass the hell out of her. In greek she would be called a "slaggus ballbagus" i think!

Please read the part of the charter dealing with unhelpful and off-topic posts before posting in PI again. It may save you from getting infracted or banned in the future.

thebiggestjim

thebiggestjim wrote: »

I think you should post the naked pictures of her in this thread and send her a link to it. I have a feeling she will stop sending you them.

I honestly believe this to be a solution to the problem, but I could see how some may think it unhelpful.

entropi

Just like LadyJ said, block the email address, thus no more pictures arriving. Then confront her about this again, make sure she knows you blocked the emails and advise her to stop her attempts at flirting as they will get her nowhere. If she continues this behaviour after say...a week or so then log into your mail account with your friend beside you and show him the emails as a last resort.

humanji

Oddly enough, I had a similar problem. What I did was I forwarded on the email to my friend and CC'd the girlfriend. I put in the message "I assumed these were meant to go to you". She never sent them to me again.

Xiney

thebiggestjim wrote: »

I honestly believe this to be a solution to the problem, but I could see how some may think it unhelpful.

infracted.

seamus

humanji wrote: »

Oddly enough, I had a similar problem. What I did was I forwarded on the email to my friend and CC'd the girlfriend. I put in the message "I assumed these were meant to go to you". She never sent them to me again.

this is exactly the course of action I would recommend.

Dord

humanji wrote: »

Oddly enough, I had a similar problem. What I did was I forwarded on the email to my friend and CC'd the girlfriend. I put in the message "I assumed these were meant to go to you". She never sent them to me again.

Simple yet effective. I'd suggest doing this.

tosh_thedude

Bro's before hoors

Na, I was in a simular situation (Without the photos) but with an extra flirth girl who was dating my best mate. I basically ended up having to tell my mate. He didnt like it and was quiet pissed at me for a while but he got over it when he realised she was a slag (Caught her in the act) So my advice to you would be to tell your mate OR mentioned the events to somebody you can trust and get them to witness her flirty mannorism...at least then if it all blows up you'll have a witness.

Overheal

humanji wrote: »

Oddly enough, I had a similar problem. What I did was I forwarded on the email to my friend and CC'd the girlfriend. I put in the message "I assumed these were meant to go to you". She never sent them to me again.

I like this. Definitely worth trying before/in lieu of doing something extreme like publish the photos.

Reesy

Years ago my mate's GF made a pass at me, & I decided to ignore it & not tell said mate. A few months later I found out that said GF had told my mate that I'd made a move on her. This strained our friendship. Once they broke up, I told him the story (wasn't sure he'd believe me till then).

Lesson for me: level with the mate.

IrishToffees

Tell your mate full stop or else u aint his mate!