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What should I do?

  • 10-06-2009 11:01pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    So I am a 28 year old straight male, but for the last 10 years or so I have had extreme homosexual fantasies, I regally get off reading homosexual based stories and occasionally watch gay porno.

    But here is the kicker, I'm not attracted to guys at all, just the act of having gay sex. Can I still call myself straight? I have never acted on these fantasies, because I have never met anyone who I even remotely though was someone I would be interested in doing these things with.

    But I would like to. In fact sometime I have very vivid dreams of having gay sex and it really turns me on. When I think of who I would like to end up with its always a woman.

    I'm not about to go off to the George or anything, but I feel I can confide this information in any of my friends as none of them are gay.

    What should I do.

    <Sorry if this post seems a bit crude>


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  • #2
    Otis Driftwood
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,925 ✭✭✭Otis Driftwood


    Are you attracted to women,have you had many/any girlfriends etc?

    If the answer is no,coupled with the intense fantisies,then it is possible/probable you are gay.

    There is lesbian and gay forum on boards that may be able to give you better advice.


  • #3
    RossFixxxed
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,102 ✭✭✭RossFixxxed


    nedtheshed wrote: »
    Are you attracted to women,have you had many/any girlfriends etc?

    If the answer is no,coupled with the intense fantisies,then it is possible/probable you are gay.

    There is lesbian and gay forum on boards that may be able to give you better advice.

    Or Bi!

    The thing is he says he sees himself ending up with a woman, but his sexual fantasies are for women... This to me would suggest at least bi. HOWEVER, the thing with the net/pron etc is that he could just be getting a buzz from something taboo or different, the thrill of something a bit secret and forbidden...?


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