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How to chose from 2 guys?

  • 07-06-2009 12:05am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    right, went out with a guy for 4 months, was head over heels with him and needless to say it ended very badly....been in a few relationships since then but nothing serious. Met a lovely guy recently and everything finally seemed to be back on track in my life and thought I could move on.

    Then all of a sudden my ex and I started talking again, which I didn't mind because I hoped we could be just friends. But one day we were chatting and all those feelings came up again and a few days ago he asked me out. I'm stuck choosing between my ex who I loved to bits and this new guy who's amazing (were not in a relationship just casual, going out for drinks etc.)Never did I think that this would happen.

    At the moment I've health worries and college stuff to sort out so I said no to my ex. He seemed to take it ok but doesnt respond to my texts now. Im just wondering did i make a big mistake?? How do I know who to pick?

    Any replies would be brilliant, thanks in advance x


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  • #2
    zxcvbnm1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 422 ✭✭zxcvbnm1


    A toughie no doubt.

    Really no one can answer this but yourself.

    First queston though is why did you and your ex break up in the first place?

    This is important before anyone can attempt to advise you.


  • #3
    I_am_Jebus
    Closed Accounts Posts: 458 ✭✭I_am_Jebus


    really as above, why did you and the first guy break up. 4 months is not a long time. For a relationship to end that quickly (generalising here) there must have been something seriously wrong on one side or the other.

    Only you can really decide tbh. As you are not in a relationship per Sé with the new guy then there is no harm in "playing the field" a little but just be careful of both guys feelings and don't let either in too deep unless you yourself are committed as well. Who knows, neither of these guys could be right for you.. Such is life.


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