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  • 01-06-2009 1:37am
    #1
    Rascalgirl
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1 ✭


    My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and a half now. I love him so much. However I'm struggling to deal with the fact that he's a bisexual cross dresser. I support him in everything he does but I just keep worrying that he's going to become more interested in guys than he is in me. He swears that it will never happen but after 4 months of dating he kissed one of our guy friends. This is the only time he's ever done anything like this. I don't know what to do I really don't want to breakup because I can see myself marrying him in the future. All I need are tips on how to deal with this and how to bring it up to him without causing a fight or anything. Someone please help me!


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  • #2
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    You need to sit down with him and decide what the rules are for your realtionship and what is cheating.


  • #3
    Taltos
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,830 ✭✭✭✭Taltos


    Thaedydal wrote: »
    You need to sit down with him and decide what the rules are for your realtionship and what is cheating.


    +1
    Agreed - as he is bi - there is no diff with him kissing your male pal as opposed to a girl.
    However you would react in that situation is how you shuld react now.


  • #4
    BlackandGold
    Closed Accounts Posts: 171 ✭✭BlackandGold


    +1

    You need to bring it up in a calm and relaxed environment though. Not in the midst of a fight, as things will just get more heated and he may not take you seriously. Chat to him when you're both relaxed - it may be awkward but if it's bothering you it needs to be brought out into the open.

    Some people have different opinions on cheating - kissing someone of the same sex may not be seen as cheating by some. You need to inform him of how you're feeling.


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