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Random Selfish Rant

  • 30-05-2009 11:22pm
    #1
    brummytom
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,572 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi,
    I feel really ****... right, I'm 15 and have two like best friends right, both of whom are 14 (but in the same year) and are going out together. The girl just told me that a few days ago, the two of them slept together (during which there was some mishap with the condom - the specifics of which I don't know)
    I feel so bad for not believing her at first, thinking she was joking, but also that she didn't trust me enough to tell me straight away - her boyfriend, who slept at mine last night, even told her not to tell me. I'm also (now don't have a go at me for this, it's just my own beliefs) quite adherent to Catholic teachings and consider myself immature - so I'm not sure what's disappointed me more, the fact they did it or didn't tell me... both of which are none of my business but have really got to me.

    I don't really know the point of what I mean, I just needed to let it out

    /rant


Comments

  • #2
    SarahSassy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,145 ✭✭✭SarahSassy


    I remember it was a bit of a shock going from knowing about sex to knowing people (of your own age) who were having sex to actually participating in it and maybe thats why you are having this reaction.

    You are right its none of your business. Given that they are in an intimate relationship, she should not have told you. It was not your business and it should be between them.

    I have to say though that they are too young for this - legally and so on... Please talk to both of them and have them wait until they are both more mature to deal with it...

    Its too late for her to take the morning after pill but she will need to do a test if her period is late...


  • #3
    prinz
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    Perhaps you're just feeling weird because two of your friends have slept together. Sounds to me like this came as a suprise to you. I'm guessing you didn't know that they were a couple/getting jiggy/ whatever. I know how that feels. Never forget the night I walked in on two friends getting it on. Took while to come to terms with it tbh.


    And everything that SassySarah said above.


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