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Is there something wrong with me?

  • 28-05-2009 11:46pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    I ll try and keep this short. Ive been going out with my girlfriend nearly 5 months and we both love each other a lot. I'm 19 and in my first relationship. I'm the kind of guy who hates to make anyone unhappy (whether that be angry or sad etc..) especially my girlfriend. We've never had an argument or said a cross word to each other but sometimes I get very paranoid that shes going to break up with me. This sends me into serious downspiral of worry and anxiety. It can be caused by something as stupid as her not replying to a text or if I tell a joke and she doesn't find it funny. The whole thing makes me feel so pathetic!! Ive never talked to her about it because I'm worried she'll think I'm a bit weird. Has anyone else had the same experience if so what did you do to get over it??
    Cheers


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  • #2
    themadchef
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    You're going out with her five months, you both love each other, and you've never had an argument. Sounds good to me OP.

    You need to start opening up to her, especially if you have concerns. I doubt she will think you're weird, in fact, she may find your honesty pleasantly surprising.

    Don't focus on the negative focus on the positive. One last thing, and don't get me wrong. You're only nineteen. It's great to be in love, but, please don't let it be the end all and be all of you're life. It can be a path to heartache if things don't work out.


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