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drained , stressed and tired

  • 26-05-2009 8:13am
    #1
    pbody1985
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 96 ✭✭


    hello , i wanted to try and get everything off my chest as i have so many worries at the moment .. and my head just can take anymore , basicaly im 24 years old ... living at home but moving out next with with my long time partner , a few weeks ago my mum an dad had a very bad row and have not spoke to each other since , last night they had a vicous row and mum walked out at 1 o clock in the morning .. dad got very drunk and started calling her nasty things then she sad she had enough .. i know know that she has been planning to move out and will be this week , leavin my dad and also my sister now in the house as i will be moving next week , ive told my parents how i feel and they said this is all just part of life .. but i just cant handle it i keep thinking of the furture and whats things are going to be like .. like no more xmas together no more birthdays today .. havin to try and make time to see both of them and work and then spend time with my partner .. then when i eventually have my own family what it will be like then ...i just dont know what to now . i cant sleep at night i cant even eat proper meals either and so tired now and drained ..i came home last night my mother was packing her bags , i stepped out the back and i didnt wanna see it and when i came back in she was gone !! not even a good bye .. i dont know what to do think or say now and cant even eat or sleep ...


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  • #2
    kitty_dillon1@h
    Closed Accounts Posts: 40 ✭kitty_dillon1@h


    hi OP
    my parents seperated about 11 years ago when i was 15 after years of figthing (physical included).it was the best thing for both of them and my family. even though i was the only one living at home it still affected my sisters because when my parents were fighting they didn't want to come home at all. now my parents get on great and if they don't,well no one has to listen to them fight!!
    you'll get used to family occasions deing different and in time they might even learn to still do those things,my parents did.
    you can be sure this isn't an easy decision for them so just support them both on it.


  • #3
    legend365
    Closed Accounts Posts: 460 ✭✭legend365


    Not everybody gets the happy family with 2 kids and a dog.

    Don't let it get you down thinking about the future. Try and focus on the present now. Whats done is done and it probably happened for a good reason. I went through years of a tense and abusive atmosphere at home until me and my ma had enough.

    I rarely speak to my da at all anymore.


  • #4
    da_shivsta
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 197 ✭✭da_shivsta


    You will get used to it. My parents broke up when I was 5. We were living in England and my dad moved over here. That was really hard but I eventually moved over here when I was 7 and now me and one brother live with my dad. Well, I'm in college so I'm not home as much. My other siblings stayed there with my mum. It was very hard getting used to it but you're older and you can understand it easier. You will adjust.


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