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Doubts in relationship

  • 20-05-2009 8:37pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Is it normal to have doubts about the person you are having a relationship with??I've been with a guy for about a year and a half and I love him to bits...but lately I have been constantly thinking about the things that I don't like about him ie putting his priorities first before others, annoying when he gets v drunk, spends money like there's no tomorrow and can be a little childish too....I can't seem to stop honing in on the negatives of him as opposed to the reasons why I fell in love with him in the first place ie we get on really well, lets me be myself at all times, very affectionate, wants the same things out of life as I do..
    Does this happen to everyone or is it time to move on? I am a worrier in general and sometimes think that the guy Im gonna be with should tick all the boxes..

    Any advice/remarks??


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  • #2
    newtoboards
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 418 ✭✭newtoboards


    Love isn't blind - love is knowing their faults and failings and loving them because of them and not in spite of them. Perhaps stop focusing on the negatives for a while and every day think of one good thing that he does.


  • #3
    tolteq
    Closed Accounts Posts: 495 ✭✭tolteq


    Unregistered wrote: »
    Is it normal to have doubts about the person you are having a relationship with??I've been with a guy for about a year and a half and I love him to bits...but lately I have been constantly thinking about the things that I don't like about him ie putting his priorities first before others, annoying when he gets v drunk, spends money like there's no tomorrow and can be a little childish too....I can't seem to stop honing in on the negatives of him as opposed to the reasons why I fell in love with him in the first place ie we get on really well, lets me be myself at all times, very affectionate, wants the same things out of life as I do..
    Does this happen to everyone or is it time to move on? I am a worrier in general and sometimes think that the guy Im gonna be with should tick all the boxes..

    Any advice/remarks??

    i think everybody goes through this. maybe its a time for a new direction?


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