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I need some advice about a girl...

  • 19-05-2009 4:13pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I'm very confused about this girl and need advice before i do something stupid.

    So i met this girl in work. We are the same age and both in college. She seems to be a flirty girl in my opinion however im unsure whether she is interested in me or just being herself. She initiated contact with me by getting my number from a co worker but she only texts me after i text her. In work she tells me about other guys that she likes and has often tried to assess what my type of girl is.

    We get on well and generally chat about everythin and we have both confessed things that we believe to be very confidential information about our different social circles. By the by We dont live in the same areas and hence we generally would never conincidentaly bump into each in social situations.

    She has come to my defence in work on occassion, while we both playfully insult each other more recently things were a little physical when she hit me i feigned injury to her amusment, she even wrote her name and a heart on my arm. She has also passed favourable comment on my body and asserts id only wish to be with her in a playful way. She admitted to dreaming about me but wont say in what way just that I was in her dream.

    We text every now and then, most recently she, being herself, determined that she could have me if she truly wanted me, but it was not in a vain arrogant way but a more mysterious way. When she asked what i thought of her i said i was too shy to say while she quickly dismissed this wit 'i dont really care anyway' but then said she thinks im cool but in denial of her greatness.

    if u need more info or have questions which may help do please ask i need help

    I think this is generally my problem... im seriously confused... my head is all over the place... I think ive got a serious crush on this girl but i dont want to be made a fool of.

    what can anyone make of this situation? What should i do? Does she really like me or is it just her nature which is leading me on??? Can anyone determine her actually thoughts from this???


Comments

  • #2
    DamagedTrax
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,277 ✭✭✭DamagedTrax


    sounds to me like she fancies you :)


  • #3
    My name is URL
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,070 ✭✭✭✭My name is URL


    DamagedTrax wrote: »
    sounds to me like she fancies you :)

    Defo

    Short of grabbing you by the pubes and dragging you to a bed, she's done everything to make you see she likes you, imo


  • #4
    Taltos
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,830 ✭✭✭✭Taltos


    Agree does sound like she fancies you.

    But even if she does not - you are not making a fool of yourself if you ask her out.
    Instead you are giving her a great compliment :)
    You are only a fool if you do fancy her and are too afraid to say anything.


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