STI problem....

LegacyUser

ok i was going out with a girl for about 8 months and having unprotected sex for about the last 4 months. about a week later i started sleeping with another girl and twice when drunk had unprotected sex with her. both of them were on the pill. after about 6 weeks of seeing this girl i ended it and started sleeping with the other one again (long story). a couple weeks later i noticed i had a stinging sensation while urinating. i went to the doc and found out i had chlamydia.
i told both girls and both them got tested. as u could imagine i am no longer seeing either but both them have said they dont have it after being tested and calling me a scumbag. i have only slept with these 2 in the last 14 months and always used protection before that. girl 1 says she slept with 1 person after me unprotected and never slept with anyone while with me! girl 2 is 18 and said im her 3rd person to sleep with and always used condoms. (heard this may not be true)

had to of got it off 1 of them, any suggestions?
anyone know how long the symptoms can take to show?
could i have had it years? and caught it off some1 else?
just how contagious is it?

really getting to me and messed everything up with girl 1!
just trying to work out who's lying....

shellyboo

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i told both girls and both them got tested. as u could imagine i am no longer seeing either but both them have said they dont have it after being tested and calling me a scumbag. i have only slept with these 2 in the last 14 months and always used protection before that. girl 1 says she slept with 1 person after me unprotected and never slept with anyone while with me! girl 2 is 18 and said im her 3rd person to sleep with and always used condoms. (heard this may not be true)

had to of got it off 1 of them, any suggestions?
anyone know how long the symptoms can take to show?
could i have had it years? and caught it off some1 else?
just how contagious is it?

really getting to me and messed everything up with girl 1!
just trying to work out who's lying....

Are you serious?! Cop onto yourself, OP. It doesn't matter who had it first, nobody GAVE it to you. You got yourself into this mess by having unprotected sex. Learn your lesson and move on. Also buy condoms. And notify *all* your past partners, not just these two.

As to your actual questions - there aren't always symptoms for chlamydia, they may never show; yes, you could have had it for years - although seeing as you claim you've NEVER had unprotected sex before these two girls I'm not sure how you think you could have caught it off anyone else.

Either you've had unprotected sex before, or one of the girls is lying. Whatever way, it's your own fault you got it.

Liber8or

The consequences of polygamy and I think you should be asking yourself (since things have been messed up with both girls) what difference does it make if you find out who gave it to you?

Both of them could be lying, and since you seem to have messed them around, why should they be honest with you?

Get it treated and abstain from passing it on to anyone else.

LegacyUser

The OP explained to the ladies what happened, but now one of the 2 girls won't tell him who gave him Chlamydia. Yeah he messed them around but at least he deserves to know which one gave it to him so save the venom.

AARRRGH

I know two people who got tested in James's and got the all clear (even though they had symptoms.) They went and got re-tested a few weeks later and were diagnosed as having chlamydia.

So false negatives happen...

Also, the girls could be lying due to being ashamed of admitting they have a disease/gave you a disease.

Anyway, just sort yourself out and move on.