What is his Problem.

LegacyUser

I have this friend lets call him X.
We have been moderately good friends for about a year now,met through work. One day he is like my best friend,sending me messages, asking me about things. the next he is saying i'm stalking him to his friends(we don't even live in the same county and I haven't seen him in about a month) He convinced himself I have a thing for him, I don't I'm in a relationship,although I can appreciate he is an attractive guy.
I really enjoy his company and I wouldn't like to get on his bad side,I asked him what gave hi the impression I was "stalking" him he told me he didn't think I was.......but I heard him say it myself!
Should I just cut off all contact with him but be civil or should I continue to be friendly. Or....should I just totally ignore him altogether. Is he worth the trouble

My name is URL

He sounds like a knob. Tell him to gtfo and end the 'friendship'

StopNotWorking

Oh yeah sounds like a bang on guy, his friends must think he's a real player, him feeding them bullsh1te and all.

Bragging lies to his friends about you behind your back? Nah, I'd pass on this chap.

HouseHippo

Tell him to Get lost sounds like a massive twat!

michellie

why would you even want to be friends with someone like that? dont bother with idiots like him

cork1

the way i handle these things is if they spread **** i spread ****. so what i would do is tell them yes ye had a thing going but you ended it cause he was inexperienced couldnt satisfy a mouse with the size of his thing. end it with " i really didnt know they could be that small" the way i see it is hes more likely to think about lying in future if he is made a laughing stock of.

HouseHippo

cork1 wrote: »

the way i handle these things is if they spread **** i spread ****. so what i would do is tell them yes ye had a thing going but you ended it cause he was inexperienced couldnt satisfy a mouse with the size of his thing. end it with " i really didnt know they could be that small" the way i see it is hes more likely to think about lying in future if he is made a laughing stock of.

The OP is in a relationship....she can't say that

**Caroline**

Hi Op,

I was reading your post there and thought it was bizarre! How obnoxious of this guy to presume he's just SO great that you're falling over him :rolleyes:

Sounds like he's nice as pie to you but then when he's around his friends, he's a jack the lad! Bragging:rolleyes: & making out he's a stud! God knows what else he's saying to them :eek:

I'd cut all contact (from your end) if I were you. If HE texts or rings YOU, well and good. I'd be polite back as there's no need to ignore him or else he'll think you're upset and I wouldn't give him the satisfaction! But keep your distance as much as you can - he's a twat :P

LegacyUser

OP sounds to me like he's bullsh!tting to his mates to make himself seem the big man.. cut him out alltogether i say.. be professional in work, be civil to him in company but otherwise say nothing to him..

Also say it to your fella, that this knob is annoyin you.. it's better you let your fella in on it now than 6months down the line when his fantasy has morphed into you two having an affair and you have to explain to your fella why you didnt tell him at the start when the guy started with this cr@p..

OMG.. people can be such a pain in the A!!