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Relationship over - Nothing to live for

  • 14-05-2009 3:04pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I don't even know how to start this...

    I was going out with this amazing girl whom I felt that I could share a future with and we often discuss and felt the same. When together we had a great time and were very happy

    The problem I let my ex girlfriend stay in my house and it led to problems within the relationship. I couldn't just turf out the ex as she was very venerable and had no home to go to! This went on for almost 6 months.

    Last week I was given an ultimatum to get the ex out or else me girlfriend was walking, Sunday was the deadline. I finally got my ex to leave and got her out of the house but I didn't get all her clothes out until Monday, as a result I did not live up to the ultimatum. My girlfriend has left me.
    There was some issues before then, where I got caught between the ex and girlfriend and was put under huge pressure, so this was the last straw

    Now I find myself with no one and I’m thinking of just finishing life, my girlfriend was everything to me, but she won't even talk to me. This I believe is caused by some family members that have returned and has always influenced her. She now tells me that she is humiliated by nit having my Ex out of my house before now

    After leaving, the ex was concerned about me and left work early one of the days to come to my house and find I was in the process of hanging myself, she was about half an hr to soon. She totally freaked! I need to end life soon as I can't take the pain any more. I'm being chewed up inside and it's not good! I can't think straight. Someone please help me...


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  • #2
    Wibbs
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,217 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    If you are having suicidal thoughts you need to get help for that and soon. See your GP, ring the samaritans, do what you need to do. Without addressing that, anything else is secondary. Since no one here can help you with such a serious situation I have to close this thread. Your love life may be a trigger, but if you have gotten to the stage of wanting to take your life I say again you need to seek help now. You owe it to yourself to do it. There is a way out of this and a way forward for you. Please take that important step

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



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