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Break-up thread with a twist question

LegacyUser · 2009-05-11 20:59:25

oh yes another break up thread. But there are a few questions that I want to ask. I dont want to get into the specifics of why we broke up. We were together for 3 years. I am living at home again. I find it really lonely at the moment. I try and keep busy but sometimes I just find myself crying and hard to cope, especially…

11-05-2009 8:59pm

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oh yes another break up thread. But there are a few questions that I want to ask. I dont want to get into the specifics of why we broke up. We were together for 3 years. I am living at home again. I find it really lonely at the moment. I try and keep busy but sometimes I just find myself crying and hard to cope, especially as I dont get on with members of my family. Anyways, I have been through 2 break-ups before but they all stink .

I find what makes it harded to move on is if there are unanswered questions. At the moment I have a load of questions for my ex but he wont reply. He is even considering moving accross the country for a job-which is great. We thought it might work but it looks like it wont. We have been in contact since the break-up but somethings developed over the weekend and now he wont reply to me. So, of course I feel lost and hopeless and all that stuff that comes with a break-up. So first of all I was wondering if there were people out there with any encouraging stories? i.e. Devastated by break-up and then found love again etc.

Also, there is one more question. Does anyone out there think that love is physiological? i.e. that it is just a set of emotions that is set off by some triggering hormone in our heads? i.e. thats why our hearts flutter when we see someone we love or why we feel heart broken. I guess Im trying to say, is there a physiological link to feeling heartbreak? I guess we are all just made of flesh and blood and at the end of the day are made up of hormones and things like that. Like really love is getting used to someone also. Is that why we find it so hard? Is that why people eventually they say get over a break-up i.e. the lust hormone is not rushing around us anymore.

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