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Veggie or Vegan Partners

  • 06-05-2009 3:19pm
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 228 ✭✭


    I was just wondering (being nosey really), does anyone have a veggie or vegan partner also? Does anyone only exclusively see veggies or vegans?

    I remember when seeing my first boyfriend (I was 16 and veggie 5 years at that point), I was freaked out by the idea of kissing him after he'd eaten meat.


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  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,110 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    My girlfriend is a vegan. :eek:

    It's handy if you are both of that persuasion, I wouldn't have constricted myself to just veg*ns though.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,128 ✭✭✭sweet-rasmus


    My first serious relationship was a veggie, as was I at the time. My second and current is veggie and I'm vegan now. Am happy that he respects my avoidance of eggs etc. but wouldn't mind if he started liking my oat milk as much as he likes my rice milk ice cream!

    I don't think I would have excluded the possibility of a relationship with a non-veggie, but it was one of things that certainly added to the attraction.

    Good question :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,226 ✭✭✭taram


    Ended up going out with a vegan after we bonded over being the only non-carnivores on a week course, but otherwise dated omnivores. My current bf always cooks veggie if we're eating together, and has learnt what beans to buy me in the market and how to cook tofu. :)


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    I've been out with a meat loving vegan, who was incredibly fussy for obvious reasons.
    And then a meateater who was terrified of trying new things and vegetables, so was also a pain in the hole.

    Someone who will eat what I put in front of them, and not complain would be nice. :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 342 ✭✭phic


    *shamelessly revives thread*
    My current OH is a meat eater, and its probably a bit weird but I find it quite attractive! there's not a snowballs chance in hell he'll ever give up meat, but that doesn't bother me. He's always been very sensitive to my dietary choices(making me veggie lasagne and the like), so I'm not gonna try and change his!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,128 ✭✭✭sweet-rasmus


    lol! perhaps it feels as if you are dancing with the devil (food)? strange indeed!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 342 ✭✭phic


    lol! perhaps it feels as if you are dancing with the devil (food)? strange indeed!
    Haha I think its cos to me eating meat is a bit taboo or something!
    What a pathetic kink to have...:o


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,399 ✭✭✭✭maameeo


    i was witha meat eater (lol, funny term) and i hated when hed try kiss me after a burger, yick the stink! freked me out!
    last bf was a veggie too so that was grand. duno if id be able to be with a meat eater again.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 396 ✭✭jape


    I would never go out with a girl who ate meat. Doesn't bother me tho, usually vegetarian girls are much hotter ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,196 ✭✭✭Crumble Froo


    yah, my fella's a veggie, though i'd have no problem with being with a dude who eats meat, as long as he doesnt shove it in my face.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,399 ✭✭✭✭maameeo


    jape wrote: »
    I would never go out with a girl who ate meat. Doesn't bother me tho, usually vegetarian girls are much hotter ;)

    so so true ;)


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    You know they say vegetarians taste better. :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,175 ✭✭✭cosmic


    Both me and my OH are veggies! :D


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,110 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    jape wrote: »
    I would never go out with a girl who ate meat. Doesn't bother me tho, usually vegetarian girls are much hotter ;)

    pix!


  • Hosted Moderators Posts: 10,661 ✭✭✭✭John Mason


    my OH would eat a whole cow raw, if he got the chance

    and i cook him a lot of raw cow too (by cook i mean wave it at the frying pan for about 30 seconds on eat side)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,127 ✭✭✭Linguo


    My bf was a big meat eater for years but ate my veggie stuff too, then a couple of years ago he turned around and said he wants to be a veggie! Now he feels as strongly as me about it, it's great! Never minded cooking him meat though and would never make him feel bad about it, it's a very personal choice....but nice to know I inspired someone I love so much to be veggie:D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 342 ✭✭phic


    Linguo wrote: »
    My bf was a big meat eater for years but ate my veggie stuff too, then a couple of years ago he turned around and said he wants to be a veggie! Now he feels as strongly as me about it, it's great! Never minded cooking him meat though and would never make him feel bad about it, it's a very personal choice....but nice to know I inspired someone I love so much to be veggie:D

    Hmm my bf is of the opinion that unless its mainly made of meat, it's not a meal!So pretty sure I could never get him to go veggie! It's pretty cool you inspired him like that though! Well done!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,399 ✭✭✭✭maameeo


    pix!

    lol, u mean u want pics of all the veggie/vegan girlies?


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,110 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    maameeo wrote: »
    lol, u mean u want pics of all the veggie/vegan girlies?

    Of course, we ,eh, need, eh, proof for, um, scientific research you see...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,399 ✭✭✭✭maameeo


    Of course, we ,eh, need, eh, proof for, um, scientific research you see...

    well, eh, im new here so, eh, i duno how to post an image (good excuse no?)


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  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,110 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    a likely story!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,121 ✭✭✭Censorsh!t


    I've never dated a vegetarian or vegan. My first boyfriend tried debating with me a lot on how animals were needed for meat and experiments in order for humans to progress :mad:
    My boyfriend now, is also a meat eater, however he says that he would like to become vegetarian, excpet his parents would freak out. He doesnt mind eating veggie meals at my house, and said that when he moves out, he'll probably become, or try to become a vegetarian, for the most part anyway. I don't mind at all, he loves animals and he tries his best for going to restaurants with a good veggie choice.
    And besides, i know very few vegetarian guys.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,128 ✭✭✭sweet-rasmus


    Of course, we ,eh, need, eh, proof for, um, scientific research you see...

    Would Avril Lavigne suit you, sir? :P
    Anne Hathaway?
    Alyssa Milano?

    That's just the celebrities beginning with "A" :D


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,110 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    Would Avril Lavigne suit you, sir? :P
    Anne Hathaway?
    Alyssa Milano?

    That's just the celebrities beginning with "A" :D

    Who is this avril, hehehe


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 228 ✭✭MadgeBadge


    jape wrote: »
    I would never go out with a girl who ate meat. Doesn't bother me tho, usually vegetarian girls are much hotter ;)

    Is that not considerably narrowing down the amount of girls you can go out with? I only know two other veggies. So where do you meet all these veggie ladies?

    I don't know a single vegetarian man. Not one. I think having the same prerequisite is a little more difficult for my sex :(. I don't mind going out with a meat eater, as long as they respect my choices as much as I respect theirs.


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,110 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    MadgeBadge wrote: »
    Is that not considerably narrowing down the amount of girls you can go out with? I only know two other veggies. So where do you meet all these veggie ladies?

    I don't know a single vegetarian man. Not one. I think having the same prerequisite is a little more difficult for my sex :(. I don't mind going out with a meat eater, as long as they respect my choices as much as I respect theirs.

    Probably depends on your friends. Nearly all my child hood friends are vegetarian now and some have and do go out with each other. I suppose if you restricted yourself to vegetarians in Ireland you woul have to go to vegetarian society meetups or pm hot vegetarian studs on this forum. :D

    Otherwise it's off to india!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 228 ✭✭MadgeBadge


    Probably depends on your friends. Nearly all my child hood friends are vegetarian now and some have and do go out with each other. I suppose if you restricted yourself to vegetarians in Ireland you woul have to go to vegetarian society meetups or pm hot vegetarian studs on this forum. :D

    Otherwise it's off to india!

    Tread carefully Tar.Aldarion, that almost sounds like an invitation :D

    Away to India it is so! Or I could hang around Govindas all day, actually, that doesn't sound half bad at all. :)


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Probably depends on your friends. Nearly all my child hood friends are vegetarian now and some have and do go out with each other. I suppose if you restricted yourself to vegetarians in Ireland you woul have to go to vegetarian society meetups or pm hot vegetarian studs on this forum. :D

    Otherwise it's off to india!


    Where did you grow up? On a commune? :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 981 ✭✭✭tj-music.com


    My gf was a vegetarian long before I became a "learner vegan" myself.

    We see all sorts of people not just vegetarians


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,399 ✭✭✭✭maameeo


    Probably depends on your friends. Nearly all my child hood friends are vegetarian now and some have and do go out with each other. I suppose if you restricted yourself to vegetarians in Ireland you woul have to go to vegetarian society meetups or pm hot vegetarian studs on this forum. :D

    Otherwise it's off to india!

    hmmm, i wonder are all the male veggies 'hot studs'?!
    pix?? :P


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 688 ✭✭✭lalee17


    I'm a veggie guy. lol


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,399 ✭✭✭✭maameeo


    lalee17 wrote: »
    I'm a veggie guy. lol

    soooo... picture?? :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 688 ✭✭✭lalee17


    Nahhhhh, I dunno how to post pics... *leaves quietly*


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,399 ✭✭✭✭maameeo


    lalee17 wrote: »
    Nahhhhh, I dunno how to post pics... *leaves quietly*

    hey, that was my excuse! u thief! :p


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,110 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    MadgeBadge wrote: »
    Tread carefully Tar.Aldarion, that almost sounds like an invitation :D
    A moderator can't be seen to fraternize with the troops :P
    Moonbaby wrote: »
    Where did you grow up? On a commune? :D
    Much worse, Sligo! The funniest one is who who said he would never be vegetarian, I think maybe his girlriend has bossed him around.
    maameeo wrote: »
    hmmm, i wonder are all the male veggies 'hot studs'?!
    pix?? :P

    Nope, I'm just a girl, I wouldn't know how!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,399 ✭✭✭✭maameeo



    Nope, I'm just a girl, I wouldn't know how!

    lol i was aiming the pix part at the hot veggie guys. lol
    if there is any :rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 301 ✭✭-lala-


    maameeo wrote: »
    lol i was aiming the pix part at the hot veggie guys. lol
    if there is any :rolleyes:

    We'll find some!




    ...eventually.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,399 ✭✭✭✭maameeo


    -lala- wrote: »
    We'll find some!




    ...eventually.

    start a 'hot male veggie post your pictures here' thread maybe? lol


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,128 ✭✭✭sweet-rasmus


    maameeo wrote: »
    start a 'hot male veggie post your pictures here' thread maybe? lol

    I'd say it would be a pretty empty thread ;) You could try, but who would post?!? *keep on dreaming*


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,399 ✭✭✭✭maameeo


    I'd say it would be a pretty empty thread ;) You could try, but who would post?!? *keep on dreaming*

    lol, we live in hope :rolleyes:


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,128 ✭✭✭sweet-rasmus


    Hmmm, I think I do know a total of five veggie guys... I guess they do tend to be quiet about it, whereas I love telling people about me being vegan :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 47 PurplePossum


    I dunno, I guess its a personal choice. Its like, if you're a non-smoker, do you date a smoker? Personally, I dont want the world to end up segregated off into smokers/non-smokers, meat eaters/non-meat eaters. My b/f both smokes and is an avid carnivore, neither of which I am. However he also loves veggie food, and doesnt smoke all the time, and when he does eat meat or smoke a lot, its not a biggie. So what a waste it would have been to dismiss the idea of dating someone utterly wonderful, but for a few part-time *vices* if you would call it that. Far more interesting to sample all the world has to offer, than to restrict ourselves to clones of ourselves. Without differences, the world would be a very boring place. So as being veggie is a personal choice, so is eating meat, so I dont see it as such a *ne'er the twain shall meet* unsurmountable barrier to getting to know someone wonderful. Usually being veggie is associated with being a bit alternative, open-minded, hippyish... rather than closing ourselves off from experiences/people, etc?? Each to their own though!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 396 ✭✭jape


    I dunno, I guess its a personal choice. Its like, if you're a non-smoker, do you date a smoker? Personally, I dont want the world to end up segregated off into smokers/non-smokers, meat eaters/non-meat eaters. My b/f both smokes and is an avid carnivore, neither of which I am. However he also loves veggie food, and doesnt smoke all the time, and when he does eat meat or smoke a lot, its not a biggie. So what a waste it would have been to dismiss the idea of dating someone utterly wonderful, but for a few part-time *vices* if you would call it that. Far more interesting to sample all the world has to offer, than to restrict ourselves to clones of ourselves. Without differences, the world would be a very boring place. So as being veggie is a personal choice, so is eating meat, so I dont see it as such a *ne'er the twain shall meet* unsurmountable barrier to getting to know someone wonderful. Usually being veggie is associated with being a bit alternative, open-minded, hippyish... rather than closing ourselves off from experiences/people, etc?? Each to their own though!

    I am very open-minded but animal cruelty, abuse and downright torture is not an experience I'd like to "open my mind" to.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 47 PurplePossum


    jape wrote: »
    I am very open-minded but animal cruelty, abuse and downright torture is not an experience I'd like to "open my mind" to.

    I'm not sure if eating meat, or even those involved in the meat industry, could be counted as engaging in *abuse and torture*. Plenty of animals and people in the world ARE exposed to abuse and torture, which I agree is downright abhorrent, while at least the meat industry is regulated to avoid or keep to the minimum such practices. I dont eat meat myself, but couldnt and wouldnt condemn those who do.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 396 ✭✭jape


    I'm not sure if eating meat, or even those involved in the meat industry, could be counted as engaging in *abuse and torture*. Plenty of animals and people in the world ARE exposed to abuse and torture, which I agree is downright abhorrent, while at least the meat industry is regulated to avoid or keep to the minimum such practices. I dont eat meat myself, but couldnt and wouldnt condemn those who do.

    The cruelty is a lot more widespread than people think, especially in todays tougher market conditions where profits are more important than treating the animals fairly. Cramming chickens into tiny cages, pumping them with hormones to grow too fast, boiling them to de-feather them, etc , = cheaper to farm = more profits.

    I would say the people involved in the meat industry are most definitely engaging in abuse and torture. And eating meat funds, promotes and encourages more of it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 58 ✭✭Eviecus


    I am a vegan and my boyfriend is a vegetarian. He is brilliant!! He makes vegan dinners practically all the time, the only exception really is when we make home made pizza and he adds cheese to his. But pretty much every day we eat vegan dinners together. Sometimes when we eat out he eats vegan with me and it gives me butterflies in my tummy (not literally cos that's gross) that he would do that. He's amazing *swoon*.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,730 ✭✭✭✭entropi


    And there ya go, finally read this thread through, and the pics thread can keep some of you ladies ticking over i guess...since a few of us posted a pic to prove we exist;)


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,110 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    And there ya go, finally read this thread through, and the pics thread can keep some of you ladies ticking over i guess...since a few of us posted a pic to prove we exist;)

    Our fake pics are working a treat! :p


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,730 ✭✭✭✭entropi


    shhhhh!!:pac:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 48 Xandrius


    Well first off Im a single male vegetarian.
    And I have only dated one vegetarian girl but I guess most of the reason for that was that we were the only veggies at the school we went to, that kind of school where you live and dont see other people than the people in the school. Dont know if you have school like this in Ireland but we have many in Norway. Anyway other than her I have been dating only meaters and the part that I have been a vegetarian have been a problem in almost every one of my relationships so now Im staying single instead of dating meaters since I dont see the point in that anymore, but I am looking for a nice veggie girl just so you know :D


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