Can't cum

LegacyUser

Having this problem for awhile.

I master bait quite a lot......maybe 3/4 times a day...........hey its good alright!!

Problem is when im with a girl and shes giving me oral sex or a handjob, I just cant seam to come and it usually pisses them off after awhile..... anything i can do?

Wibbs

First off ease up on yourself a bit. Don't wanna wear it out. Secondly, show the woman what you like. They have to learn too, it's not just us.

Gary ITR

Unregistered wrote: »

Having this problem for awhile.

I master bait quite a lot......maybe 3/4 times a day...........hey its good alright!!

Problem is when im with a girl and shes giving me oral sex or a handjob, I just cant seam to come and it usually pisses them off after awhile..... anything i can do?

Jaysis lad ease up there. You're tanks are probably just running on empty

Dave147

Nothing unusual there, I love getting a blowjob off the missus but we both know I'm not going to come, I can only come from self love or from sex, nothing wrong with me, just the way it is..

krudler

master bait, is that like bass fishing?

Wibbs

krudler, yep very clever, now rather than write up an unhelpful post may I suggest a persusal of the charter of this forum before proceeding? Thanks.

LegacyUser

Unregistered wrote: »

Having this problem for awhile.

I master bait quite a lot......maybe 3/4 times a day...........hey its good alright!!

Problem is when im with a girl and shes giving me oral sex or a handjob, I just cant seam to come and it usually pisses them off after awhile..... anything i can do?

For me it depends a lot on the technique the girl uses - some girls do it right the first time, some never master it. Some do it too fast, too jerky, grab too hard or too soft. Show her how she should do it, take her hand/head and guide it softly (I said softly, you're not shooting a porno!). There is only one person who knows how it is done and that's you, your girl can't feel what you feel by pure magic. Most important of all: relax. If you are nervous, your partner will feel it and become nervous as well. Your environment should be relaxing as well.

Hope this helps.

LegacyUser

Maybe you've gotten too used to the firmer grip you use yourself. If you cut it out for a few days you might find yourself that little bit more sensitive to stimulus so it's easier. Get her to use baby oil too when using her hand.

chillywilly

if you stop w@nking for a week im pretty sure you will come

JangoFett

I have the same "problem"

Even when I haven't beaten off in a while, I just don't, unless the girl makes a point of it, and spends a while at it.

But each to their own

amybabes

lol, this is such a weird post but honestly, ive never been able to make my bf come through oral....he enjoys it, but he says that he's never managed to come that way, and it pissed me off at first, i was like - do u enjoy this, am i doing it how u like it? it kinda knocked my own confidence at my "performance" but i know hes telling the truth, it suits me 2 be honest, used as foreplay, and i just give up when my jaw muscles get sore n we move on......... better off just bein straight up wit the girl, its more her self confidence will be battered than her gettin pissed off, maybe not the first time..."look love u mite as well give up it aint happenin" but just explain that every fella is different, just as every girl is...and teach her how 2 do things that u like, and make u hot.

im pretty used 2 the one guy, so we know each other to a t.....but it took as a while to get there, but that can only be done by losing inhibitions and just telling each other whats good/whats not/show appreciation when the other persons gettin it right............but if these are girls that ur only going to be wit once r twice then dnt worry bout it, wouldnt it be worse if u werent lasting for any time at all! cant win sometimes!!

Mrmoe

Yep the same happens with me. Some girls have a problem doing it. Make sure that you are well hydrated as well and that you are not too tired.

b28

Unregistered wrote: »

Having this problem for awhile.

I master bait quite a lot......maybe 3/4 times a day...........hey its good alright!!

Problem is when im with a girl and shes giving me oral sex or a handjob, I just cant seam to come and it usually pisses them off after awhile..... anything i can do?

Hey mate, it could be because you've just started gettin bjs etc and just aren't gettin the satisfaction from it coz they aint great at doing it.
its not your fault, its their fault, and u need to say " i know what pace does it for me!"

LegacyUser

hello op,
as stated already - ease up on the oul self love there.
I used to have this problem with a previous lover.
In the end the only way I could come was if she blew me for several minutes, then we'd have sex. I would ususally come within a few minutes using this method.
I'm married now and can come easily......sometimes too easily!
Anyway, just try to exercise a bit more instead of whacking off all day and then you might be a little more relaxed with your gf.
I think thats what my problem was.....I was too uptight and couldn't really relax enough to let go.