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  • 03-05-2009 9:25pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    hey,
    this is probably going to sound very trivial compared to other threads here but...
    I always seem to get depressed for no reason.I have a good group of friends who are there for me in times of stress. however I fear that they dont like me.I have no reason to feel this way but I cant help it.For example yesterday my friend called and texted me in order to meet up after the match.That was fine but I woke up this morning with the feeling that everyone hates me.My friends left early enough because they werent having a good night(we didnt get in anywhere as all of the places were over 21s).we ended up in a pub and they werent enjoying themselves.I woke up this morning with the feeling that no one likes me and that I wruined their night.
    Sorry I know it seems like a really small problem.This feeling that everyone hates me is driving me crazy.


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  • #2
    star-pants
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,429 ✭✭✭✭star-pants


    It's highly doubtful you ruined their night -- you guys didn't get in anywhere fun so felt the night was squashed somewhat. That's not down to you, that's down to your age and bouncers.

    You have a good group of friends, who make effort to see and hang out with you. Don't push that away.
    What age are you? Are you in college? Perhaps it might do you good to see the college counsellor?


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Im 18.Im going to do the leaving cert in a few weeks,which perhaps is a contributing factor.Its annoying because I just sit feeling sorry for myself neglecting study.Its such a pain.
    Thanks for the help


  • #4
    star-pants
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,429 ✭✭✭✭star-pants


    The leaving cert can put a lot of pressure on you. My brother's 18 and has felt it due to personal issues and school, he's left school and we only managed to convince him to sit his exams, he won't even study. Don't waste that, focus on what's after the exams, the relief, the summer, and hopefully college with lots of new experiences.

    Do yourself proud and get the best you can - and you will move on with things and they won't seem so gloomy. It's ok to feel that way btw, we all get times like that. And I hated studying, HATED it, was so crap at it, would do anything to not study. BUT I managed to make a timetable and try and stick to it, no more than an hour or two for each subject with a 10min break and a good lunch dinner breaks inbetween, and give myself the evening off to relax.

    It is tough I know, but you can and will do it, and you'll be proud of yourself. It's ok to feel low, but you're a stronger person for getting through it. There's also no harm in speaking to your school counsellor, my brother's school have been tremendous help with him.


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