Question about sex...

LegacyUser

A question has been playin on my mind the last few weeks, during sex while wearing a condom, is it ok finish inside her or should you pull out anyway. Or does it just depend on the person?

Personally I'd tend to pull out (probably out of fear of the consequences lol) but I just wondered the general consensus?

Wibbs

I pull out myself, but maybe that's a personal thing to me.

LegacyUser

You don't need to pull out if you are wearing a condom although some men do.
Condom is supposed to protect your partner from getting pregnant(and not only) especially as there is some discharge containing sperm before you ejaculate and it may cause pregnancy. So once you're wearing condom there's only about 3%(not entirely sure bout number) probability of getting your partner pregnant.

Faith

I've never been with someone who pulled out while wearing a condom, nor would I expect them to.

neuro-praxis

I have never heard of "pulling out" while wearing a condom! If you are so concerned, use two kinds of contraception at once.

krudler

I prefer to pull out but thats me, my girlfriend doesnt mind and prefers when i dont, we always use condoms and shes on the pill as well but you can never be too safe

cowzerp

krudler wrote: »

I prefer to pull out but thats me, my girlfriend doesnt mind and prefers when i dont, we always use condoms and shes on the pill as well but you can never be too safe

WOW-you must be really scared of getting your missus pregnant.

kfk

Why the hell would anyone pull out, especially after going that far. For me, I would finish off the job the way it is meant to be finished.

sam34

i've never been with someone who pulled out when wearing a condom, and, tbh, i think it would reduce teh intimacy a bit

star-pants

Personally, I would assume if the guy was protected that he wouldn't pull out.
But each to their own. Do you have a problem with it?

SarahMc

sam34 wrote: »

i've never been with someone who pulled out when wearing a condom, and, tbh, i think it would reduce teh intimacy a bit

+1 ...I have never heard of this before, and would find it... I dunno...odd and insulting..

LegacyUser

Guy here, just posting my experiences with this.

Normally I wouldn't pull out while wearing a condom. Although I did sleep with one girl before who wanted me to pull out regardless of wearing protection. Obviously I did, but thought it a bit weird. I just think it ruins the moment a bit.

seraphimvc

never think about the question until OP you asked i usually finish in her and pull out shortly after that.

herya

Pulling out can take away the pleasure for the girl & can ruin the mood. Selfish if you ask me.

If you're so concerned, use a second method to be on the safe side. That's what condoms are for, not to pull out...

gaeilgegrinds

My opinion is it is actually more dangerous to pull out. Have never had a guy do that with me, think I would probably find it rather insulting. Plus, my friend had a guy do this and when he pulled out the condom stayed inside her, had to get the MAP as was full of you-know-what and despite being on the Pill was petrified!

LegacyUser

cowzerp wrote: »

WOW-you must be really scared of getting your missus pregnant.

Maybe he is. Nothing wrong with that, especially if they really don't want a baby. Better to be safe than sorry.

krudler

gaeilgegrinds wrote: »

My opinion is it is actually more dangerous to pull out. Have never had a guy do that with me, think I would probably find it rather insulting. Plus, my friend had a guy do this and when he pulled out the condom stayed inside her, had to get the MAP as was full of you-know-what and despite being on the Pill was petrified!

Surely that would have happened regardless if he had came inside her then?

herya

krudler wrote: »

Surely that would have happened regardless if he had came inside her then?

The he wouldn't be in such a hurry and could control the process better.

passive

seraphimvc wrote: »

never think about the question until OP you asked i usually finish in her and pull out shortly after that.

I think it kind of goes without saying that we all pull out at some point after the deed...

gaeilgegrinds wrote: »

Plus, my friend had a guy do this and when he pulled out the condom stayed inside her, had to get the MAP as was full of you-know-what and despite being on the Pill was petrified!

I'm...sorry, there's a map!?

krudler

Unreg_09 wrote: »

Maybe he is. Nothing wrong with that, especially if they really don't want a baby. Better to be safe than sorry.

Bingo, if its a choice between a few seconds of pleasure and lifetime of raising a kid i know what I'll take

Lady

passive wrote: »

I'm...sorry, there's a map!?

Morning After Pill

passive

Twincest wrote: »

Morning After Pill

^_^ That makes a whole lot more sense...

G-Money

herya wrote: »

Pulling out can take away the pleasure for the girl & can ruin the mood. Selfish if you ask me.

If you're so concerned, use a second method to be on the safe side. That's what condoms are for, not to pull out...

I'm a bit confused by this. How can it take away from the pleasure for the girl? I mean if the guy is wearing a condom, she won't feel the "stuff" so what difference does it make if he pulls out beforehand?

nomorebadtown

grandmaster wrote: »

I'm a bit confused by this. How can it take away from the pleasure for the girl? I mean if the guy is wearing a condom, she won't feel the "stuff" so what difference does it make if he pulls out beforehand?

i imagine the girls can indeed feel it despite the condom...the feverish thrusting, the throbbing, the heat, the reactions of their partner....but i really dont get why would you pull out at all unless you want to finish up elsewhere (oral, chest, back etc)..

Wibbs

herya wrote:

Pulling out can take away the pleasure for the girl & can ruin the mood. Selfish if you ask me.

Well condoms ruin the mood for most guys to some degree or other, but still they wear them.

nomorebadtown wrote: »

but i really dont get why would you pull out at all unless you want to finish up elsewhere (oral, chest, back etc)..

One word. Pregnancy. Then again although I like kids in small doses, I really really don't want one of my own, so maybe thats just me and more and more getting the snip beckons.