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  • 29-04-2009 12:02pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    The only way for my girlfriend to enjoy sex is for her to be on top, so she can control how much of my penis goes inside her.. because if i go all the way in (which is what i like to do), it hurts her.

    We've tried loads of oral, all sorts of positions, lube etc

    She's kinda given up and just said, "i'll just go on top". But i like to do it from behind obviously, and i like going all the way in, which i just can't do. Its making sex less exciting for me and i can't seem to reach orgasm from penetration.

    She's a small girl, but not tiny, nor is my penis massive
    Anyone with any helpfull knowledge on the subject?


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  • #2
    Cuddlesworth
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,012 ✭✭✭✭Cuddlesworth


    She needs to go to a doctor.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Cuddlesworth wrote: »
    She needs to go to a doctor.

    +1

    Old ex of mine used to have this problem. She had a medical condition which resulted in internal scarring etc. so she knew what was causing it.

    Get her to talk to her doc.


  • #4
    AARRRGH
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,382 ✭✭✭✭AARRRGH


    She might have 'vaginaitis' (probably spelt wrong) which is where a psychological problem causes the vagina to not fully relax.

    Has she had this problem with other boyfriends?

    Is she a little bit messed up in the head, e.g. very low self esteem, history of abuse, or something like that?


  • #5
    Beruthiel
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    Get her off to the GP for a check up.


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